I don’t see a problem with that, I think I would prefer it actually. But its very difficult to find someone to connect with at that level specially finding someone with a mental illness. I think my country doesn’t have a lot of szs and it’s full of guys that don’t interest me.
After the diagnosis I’ve had a couple of chances to marry, the guys had mental illnesses as well, but I’m glad i didn’t. It would’ve been pretty tough to live with someone who also has mental illnesses.
But then I couldn’t meet someone “normal” unless I can funtion normally. I have no idea when I get stable enough to get into a relationship.
Yeah, me neither. It’s not like I’m looking for marriage too, that’s kind of secundary, I would prefer kids over marriage. “Why get the government envolved in my romantic life?”
Haha,
I’m not really interested in having kids. What I want is marriage, the relationship, and whenever I see someone with kids in the streets or something I envy the kind of relaionship they could have with the opposite sex, not the kids themselves.
I got married. She said she accepted me for who I was. Later I realized she accepted me for what I had. We got divorced and I have not even tried to date anyone since then.
Diagnosed 1994/95. Married, 2000. Still married today. She’s a normie. We have one daughter. Marrying another Sz is okay if that floats your boat, but can be utter hell on your children if there’s not at least one stable parent at home. Very important to keep that in mind.