Im not gay but i have problems with my orientation. Im going on a gay party tonight.
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I’m married to a man,
But I don’t think anyone is 100% straight.
No need to define it, we’re just human,
And humans like to do it.
A lot.
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Rather somebody admits it or not everybody is a little bit gay. We all fall somewhere on the spectrum.
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The spectrum from 10% gay to 100% gay? Because I’m definitely 100% gay. I’ve never been turned on by any woman or female body part. Not even in my dreams. The female body is basically one of my biggest turn-offs.
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Maybe it’s 10% gay to 90% gay and you just don’t want to admit you’re a little bit straight. I’m being sarcastic of course. That’s not in any way realistic. We are not mind readers so why do we have to label others?
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Yeah. I think it’s just as ignorant to say we are all a little of both as it is to say we’re all either gay or straight. Just let people figure it out for themselves. There’s not an ounce of straight in me.
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Yeah I agree. Everyone walks their own path in life. Just some haven’t got to the point where they realize that. For instance they might be stuck in the labeling process so bad that they can’t figure out things between the extremes. It’s like playing duck duck goose without ever tagging one person.
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Come on!
I know you’ve seen my pictures around here and find me attractive,
Its okay to admit your feelings…
Just kidding!
I do think that most everyone is somewhere between the traditional “gay or straight” standards,
Although I guess there are exceptions, they’re rare.
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I find it easier to form emotional attachments to other males, but I’m not physically attracted to them.
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I find women more sexually attractive, but I still prefer penis) for sex. For me to find a man even a little sexually attractive I have to be pretty madly in love with him. And even then it’s still meh most of the time. But I find a lot of women very attractive. I’m married to a man.
If you were in jail would you be gay for the stay?
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I’ve always been sexually attracted to women, but I’ve had many gay friends over the years. For many years I lived close to NYC, and I would spend most weekends in Greenwich Village and Chelsea. Unfortunately the AIDS pandemic hit the gay community very hard in the 1980’s, so I lost a lot of friends during that period of time.
When I returned from the navy I became an AIDS activist joining the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT-UP) in 1987. I participated in several demonstrations, with the Kennebunkport demonstration being my last before moving to Florida in 1992.
I love gay people and gay culture. From drag queens to artisans. I’ve met ordinary gay people and some very famous gay people.
People are people.
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Lesbians are hot.
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Omg, @77nick77. Lol.
I would tend to agree though. I’m “straight” and have no desire to be physically intimate with a woman, however, I get platonic crushes on women. And I admire and am attracted to strong women, which I would argue that many lesbians are… I had a crush on Rooney Mara after seeing her play Lisbeth in Girl With The Dragon Tattoo… I still have a little crush on that character. No kissing fantasies though 
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I have never found a sexual orientation that fits me. I’ve been attracted to both men and women at different times, but only under certain circumstances. And I’ve only ever enjoyed sex with one person ever.
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My family thinks I’m gay because I’ve never had a girlfriend.
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@zeno that’s funny !
I was never interested in girls, and never had a girlfriend, too.
In the past my family had hopes about me but I hope that these hopes
finally disappeared 
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There is a Swedish version of that film you could watch too with titles to read.
The author was Swedish.
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I have the Swedish version with English subtitles on DVD. It’s very good. Noomi Rapace is excellent as Lisbeth Salander. I never saw the later Hollywood version.
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I’m straight. Just before my psychosis as I slid down the slippery slope I did have this desire to kiss this guy at work. He was my supervisor and it was all a little strange! It wasn’t like an attraction. He was a good dude but it was just this weird compulsion. I’m not attracted to males and I’d say I’m 100% straight and not on any spectrum. I like the ladies…it was a tough part of psychosis with stuff like that where your questioning your basic thoughts and feelings but I was dealing with a lot of stuff!
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