Any gay people here?

I often get thoughts to just randomly kiss someone men or woman when I’m talking to them. It’s not me though and it normally happens around men. It makes me feel so weird afterwards.

I am attracted to woman as that’s what I masturbate to when I watch porn.

I keep trying to figure out my orientation, but I can’t.
I’ve “settled” for bi-romantic or pan-romantic, as those seem to fit me the best.

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It may be part of the illness… I’m as straight as they come but I have thoughts of kissing a man in conversation…it’s an intrusive thought. And I always wanna say “I love you” to a woman in a conversation. I have that intrusive thought too.

yes bru thats the same thoughts i get. But im straight as hell aslo

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that’s weird as hell…

both of us

Yea but im sure as hell aint gonna kiss a man dude.

Unless it was for 100 000 smackas

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Yeah I have the intrusive thought of the N word around black ppl. I’m not gonna say it outloud though. But I have all these intrusive thoughts, i’m not gonna act on.

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Thats funny lol

Nah not the least bit gay. As close as it gets is agreeing someone has a charming appearance

I’m happily married, but I must admit, this guy gives me a little tingle in the nether region! :wink:

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Well yes to the point of having another gay man tell me I’m so gay. Sweet complement to get. :slight_smile:

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i’ve thrown all genetic programming and became voluntary celibate. i think im more evolved than others. not saying im better

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Further evolved?

Evolution wants us to bone, all day, everyday.

We enjoy sex because evolution needed us to do it,

So people will keep being born…

I guess it was a bad plan on nature’s part, we have to many people and still trying to ■■■■■) all the time,

Maybe it possible you’re further evolved…

:thinking:

But I doubt it, we still need people. Just less people.

I’ve been openly gay since I was eight. My moms reaction was “So? I like girls too.” Which was a little anticlimatic. I have trouble sometimes labling myself… (I wouldn’t really say I’m pan since I don’t have to have a connection with someone to hook up. And I don’t like the word bisexual because I’m attracted to more then just ‘girls and guys’ like trans girls and anyone that identifies with anything else really) I’m currently with a guy so obviously people like to roll their eyes when I say I’m gay but it is a big part of my identity and my boyfriend is very supportive which is nice. In general though I have a VERY strong preference to girls. I literally obsess over them all.

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We need more people to fill the jobs that are being made in the STEM fields. In the future, there will literally be too many of those. So technically we need more people to work those jobs, but less people on the planet. It’s being stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I don’t know why I just said that. I wasn’t paying attention to the conversation prior.

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it is sad how hard it can be to be gay. I’m a girl so I can’t say anything about being a gay guy experiencing homophobia (I’d imagine violence would be involved) but for me it’s always been constant sexualization and harassment. For example if someone was hitting on me and I told them I was gay, they would respond “Sexy, Can I come watch sometime?” Or “I can change your mind” “Are you sure?” Or the absolute dumbest “you’re too pretty to be a lesbian”

Sometimes the stupidity of people just blows me away.

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I often wonder if gay girls like to work out. I know there are some that don’t but I wonder how many there are. (obviously because i work out). I’ve met a couple who worked out at the gym I go to and I chatted them up because I seen one was doing what I always preach about women should be doing if they want to reach that kind of aesthetic style. It was pretty nice talking to them and I got their picture.

I don’t work out, but only because I’ve never been a active person haha. :sweat_smile: but I’m gunna try and get healthy as soon as I don’t sleep in until 3pm and am less suicidal.

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Ehh it’s not for everybody. I appreciate it when people do as then I have something to talk about that I can understand on another level than just superficial surface talk. It’s certainly helpful to do as a means to function healthier in life but many people can get by without so.

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I have very specific types of people I am attracted to.

Talking to a handsome normal guy does nothing to my imagination. I don’t even fantasize like I used to, that is weird.
I guess now that I think about it, I do not fantasize about a specific person.

I also like women but have never been with one. I am not attracted to any woman, I am attracted to specific types of women.

There is a guy in my yoga class, I noticed him immediately and secretly studied his body. He is very very handsome!
He seems to be 48-55 years old. Too bad I can not do much about it. :rofl:

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