I used to be really very bad, people would always say I was so quiet and shy. I never knew what to say and couldnt do social chitchat. I did learn, to the point that some people in one on one conversations even think i am not shy at all and an extravert. In groups im still awkward and quiet though. And I cant do the kind of talk with people in a group talking about nothing and having fun…I prefer meaningful one on one conversations or joking in my own way with people I know well. I have social anxiety, they even thought of autism, but people generally dont notice in superficial contacts.