You Were Right- Guy Friend is a Jerk

Well, I didn’t listen to forum about weirdo bounty hunter who wanted to be friends…I was his friend and now regret it. I should know by now that random schizophrenics on a random website for schizophrenics are more logical and wise than I am. lol, love you guys (shout out!)

My guy friend, a bounty hunter, will never see logic about the reality of his actions; neither as a bounty hunter who exploits impoverished suspects by forcing them to pay to stay out of prison before they’ve been found guilty of a crime, or as a romantic partner.
He always tells me about his trysts and his relationship goals and he is actually a misogynistic jerk who wants women to stop working and depend 100% on their male partner, satisfying all of the man’s needs while sacrificing her career, financial independence, and future in the event that he dies or leaves her for someone else AND he won’t settle down until he finds two women to keep together in his home like a polygamous sect. I let it go, since to each their own, until after I gave him links to websites where he can actually hook up with poly-amorous couples willing to do that, but he said he wants a woman who “wouldn’t do that with anyone” and “I want her to be innocent”. He has also said he only wants to date women who aren’t as smart as him and he seeks out damaged and traumatized women because he wants to “save them.” His current girlfriend was a virgin, high-school drop out with what he thought was a traumatic past (he later told me, “the trauma wasn’t even that bad! I’ve heard worse from my suspects.”) yikes. I’m not giving back the TV stand, kitchen table, chairs, or anything else he gave me as gifts, though. I consider that payment for having to listen to him explain why he likes uneducated, traumatized, financially and emotionally starved women as his love interests because he likes that they need him.

I need to quit making bad decisions about the men I let into my life. I am now going to hug my cat.
Oh no guy friend is calling. I’m not answering! I didn’t answer by the way
Now he texted me
ignores text
hugs cat

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It sounds like he likes to dominate people. It is best to stay away from people like that so I think you are making a good call not answering him. Is there someone in your life you trust you can talk about his behavior and how you should deal with him like a good friend or therapist?

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And toxic masculinity doesn’t exist, right??

What a dick.

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Well, a therapist would be good, but I believe my insurance would charge me $50 per session. :frowning:
As for friends, aside from that jerk I don’t really have any except two of my cousins who I love and who support me, but are often busy or out of town.

He did text again yesterday so I texted back: I’m angry rn, best not to talk to me. I didn’t mention that I am angry at him and it’s best not to talk to me.

Thank you for replying! I will be distancing myself, possibly ghosting him.

Bounty hunters are extra-legal scumbags who couldn’t cut the muster to become a real police officer. They’re worse than dirty cops.

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