You know why I don’t like my neighbor thinking of me all the time? Because every false movement, mistake, or indecision I hear a big noise from the apartment that I can only deduce is a threat taking advantage of me. It amazes me she is doing something deliberately which she KNOWS is wrong. But I think it’s really wrong because she makes a point of slamming or bumping when what I’m doing is in doubt. If she’s going to judge me and expect me to not do anything wrong than she had to quit her policing of me. So I am on the receiving end of paying for literally a wrong step but then it goes up to someone following my every move. No,Pixel, I doubt she thinks I’m handsome. She’s just plain nasty and mean and treacherous even when I am not causing her any trouble. Are ALL old ladies like this and I just didn’t notice until this age? All of my parents women friends from church seemed nice. I want revenge. I get penalized even when I doing NOTHING wrong, but I just make a bad move.
Do you think is it wise to approach the old ladies and talk with her?
You obviously have the right for anger. It is dangerous, however, to turn the anger into action.
Actually that seems like psychosis,how can she know you made the wrong move and choice and than bang the wall??she cannot see it…but ■■■■ yea,life is not gonna be great with psychosis
Do you suspect her noises are only heard when you are in doubt of yourself because when you doubt yourself, or make a mistake, the world comes to a grinding halt, and suddenly, you become hyper-aware of every little thing can be heard in that silence.
You know the saying about “hearing a pin dop” in the silence that follows when you do wrong?
Maybe when you are confident/doing no wrong, you just tune out her noises like a filter that would prove she is nothing more than a graceless old woman?
Have you ever thought about what she might be going through in her old age. Maybe she is banging into things because she is losing her balance? Maybe she needs help instead of judgement?
is it possible that she is totally oblivious to what she is doing?
the guy upstairs from me doesn’t care about anyone but himself,
he has no carpets and drops things and makes noises all at the worst possible times.
It sounds to me like you need to ditch apartment life if possible.
the world is filled to the brim with bitter, horrible old ladies…mostly they fill churches on a sunday .
take care 