Women are usually acutely aware of men, alone, at the club for sex. It is not unusual for people to go to clubs with that purpose. In a dark place with only alcohol, party drugs and “dancing”, it is expected. But there are types you should be aware of and avoid. Older men, there alone, are among the highest of red flags. They can usually we seen at the bar looking for young women who are drunk enough to have annoyed their own friends into distancing from them. Women who accept free drinks and dance between trips to the restroom.
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The funny thing I noticed is as per generation, people form out side town goes to clubs and people from the same town build clubs.
Then they leave the town with the experience either talking good or worse.
One of my known guy has a club, I had to book for my friends for new year bash. There where no seats.
When I call him he immediately gave me tickets for tomorrow’s new year event .
Then I wondered was the friends I went with was actual friends or the person who gave me tickets when needed.
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I don’t drink alcohol for multiple reasons. Coke zero (caffeine) does the trick for me
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Well I’m an “older man” (around 10-12 years more than the general population there). And I don’t mind going to clubs alone.
We also need to beat that prejudice and it’s not easy for us. Some women are also there for if they find some sort of adventure, not only getting drunk, doing hard drugs and dancing.
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I think perhaps the club culture is different in the US/Canada than it is in Europe. Nothing wrong with that, either. Just two different cultures – both have pros and cons 
Edit: I could be way wrong about this, too lol Idk anything about clubbing
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So yesterday I was kind of hesitant approaching girls. Basically I was looking for someone I like that gave me eye contact back. I prefer to do this instead of blindly going for random girls, who can ■■■■ up your mental state pretty quick.
Found her, introduced myself and asked for her name. I told her that she was one of the most beautiful girls around. Shaked hands. I tried to keep hand contact longer but it didn’t work out.
She was super nice to me, but I believe she wasn’t interested in anything more. So I ended the conversation pretty quick and went home early.
At least I tried 
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ya got more steez than I do, man lol
I get anxious just ‘liking’ a woman’s profile online – I make for a better wingman than anything lol
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I also like beeing wingman. I believe not many dudes can be a wingman. They get jealous or competitive.
I think it’s an awesome quality to have (beeing a good wingman). Very appreciated.
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Doing those three things with an expensive outfit and the possibility of sex with a stranger is the only thing keeping the clubs open. I don’t know what you mean by “we need to beat that prejudice”. Creeps at the club are a fixture of the establishment. If you want to find women, don’t hunt for them in a club. Find a community activity. Never start with how beautiful they are. I prefer women and know being one and dating many that is not how to land them. Put yourself in a more natural setting and it will be easier.
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I used to go clubbing alone all the time back when I was a drinker. No way I’d got to a club at all now in my sober life.
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I went clubbing on my 18th birthday and not been since
Prefer live music and a sticky floor
But these days, don’t even do that
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Exactly! That’s the prejudice. “All men alone at the clubs are creeps”. Some are, some aren’t, imo.
Imo, you can get with girls at clubs as well. At least some of them are there for the same reason as you are.
I also find it easier, because complimenting looks just works in that enviroment. As oppossed to dating in a community.
Anyways, I’m in a community as well. And trying both…
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How’s your studies going man??
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Good. Exercise and going out keeps me sane tho…
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That’s what’s upan. Keep it up bro!!! Also…if you make some new music…share bro 
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I’m definitely not the clubbing type, so I wouldn’t go alone or with someone else. Clubbing = drinking = barfing, in my mind. I am emetophobic, so I avoid places where there is a higher risk of people getting sick.
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Hell yeah !
If my body was relaxed enough to dance sober all night and have fun but my energy isn’t in my body often as such and I get stiff sometimes and don’t feel comfortable then tension in body and people don’t like me usually and I don’t want suppression of me but freedom of me and so forth.
Have been clubbing alone but wasn’t sober.
Also don’t want to be taken advantage of etc
I go to bed around 5-7 now so guess not but god do I want to go clubbing.
But sober and myself and happy n relaxed.
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Awww yeah tell em to call you Juicy J cuz you know what bands will make her dance 
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I get every point you made @Truemist8
It’s good to see someone with a positive attitude towards it tho.
@LevelJ1 still don’t know if to trust you as the DJ or not (you got some bangers, but I’m worried about the black metal thingie )
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