I have never been to a nigtclub where you can see a lot of sexy girl,this few days i will most probably be going to visit a nightclub and experience it.
I think I will not bring a negative mindset there and will just see and experience.I feel I had erectile dysfunction but I am not going to have sex first visit there right?lol…i will try to enjoy there,but I would like to know what are you guys experience at the night club?
I think I went twice to a nightclub excluding school dances. I never felt comfortable heading there but more power to you. Just don’t really like dancing. But you can sit at a table and engage in conversation through the booming system… Apparently bars and clubs are the go-to places to meet girls in heat. 
In kansas there are only strip clubs.
Some good some bad.
One time I got a lap dance from a girl who was exactly my type. The cost 1$.
“You can’t put your hands on the dancers”
“Don’t put your hands on the dancers”
Ahh memories I would have otherwise forgot.
I did put my hands on her and she didn’t seem to mind…
■■■■ ■■■■ ■■■■ I think my libidos coming back.
Glad your getting out and get to try something new.
I’ve never been comfortable in them… but if you drive yourself… or get there yourself… you don’t have to stay if it’s not your scene.
Yeah I’d never feel comfortable in a club.
Strip clubs are different.
Nightclubs can be fun
But in my case when I go nightclub I get paranoid symptoms start thinking people are watching me and this is unpleasant feeling
Also I went nightclub last year with my friend and I have weight round my belly as if pregnant which isn’t a good look
Just be confident. Have an atittude even if its faked.
go to pre drinks, get some liquid courage down you and youll be fine.
ill go out clubbing only occasionally now, say like friends bd etc, much prefer pub/bar now.
There’s dancing and drinking and music. Possibly food. You sit around sipping a beer or a drink and talk to whoever you’re with and watch the people dance. Talking to girls you don’t know there or getting up and dancing takes a certain bravery I never had.
Try and go to a middle class sort of nightclub that isn’t to expensive. …even if they do ask for a cover charge. That’s normally the safest place to go. Yuppy clubs is expensive and the girls are high maintenance. Downtown clubs can be a bit dangerous if you’re not a local. It’s a good thing to drink two beers before you go in so that you’re a bit relaxed once you entered. If you don’t feel like communicating you can just sit at one place the whole night and nobody will be fazed about you… If you want to make clubbing your scene then try and stick to one club so that in time you can learn to get to know the owners and locals and bouncers. This will give you more pleasure to go there often. Good luck and enjoy.
You should go to a club in DC or a punk rock concert like in Pittsburgh, or a rave out in the woods like they have in VA, or an anime convention in Baltimore…there’s so much to do. Travel the world. New York City is crazy, but you can have fun outside the city too. Suburban college towns are the best places to party and find weed, esp here where everyone’s a hipster or hippie or junkie, we’re going to lose this town to big business but the college is pretty much the entire town haha
I went to a really uh risqué night club a few times last year.
Sex with clothes on. Why not.
The thing is not to expect much of it to carry over into anything. I mean what people do at nightclubs is not really what they do all of the time, hopefully.
If you really want to just have casual sex just put an ad of yourself on Craigslist. No I am not kidding.
Why does almost everyone equate nightclubs with sex? I used to go to them for the music and to have a good time…age 16 - 21…yeah, back then they sometimes let you in underage.
I never went to meet girls, and I abhorred strip clubs which my friends forced me to go to maybe 3 times…I say forced because it was either sit in the car or go in and they would buy drinks…so maybe I should say coerced rather than forced, but still.
Last time I went to a nightclub it was to listen to a rock/blues band in 2001, and last time before that was 1990 to see a band that did an excellent cover of Led Zeppelin.
You were 16-21 and you honestly weren’t even a little bit interested in the girls at the clubs? I find that hard to believe.
Gtx1990 is 24 or 25. That’s why he may equate clubs with sex. Pretty girls with skimpy clothes and dresses on will be there as everybody knows. At his age meeting girls and having sex is a natural thing to think about. Or meeting a girl and asking her out on a date. @Gtx1990, I asked my dad years ago if he ever had a one-night stand with any girl he met in a club or bar. He said no. And he frequented bars and clubs for most of his early years since he was 18 or so. So I don’t know if that means anything to you.
But you will have some competition in bars and clubs if you want to meet women.
You could try an Internet cafe. Be careful what info you put on those computers though. It might be a little less competitive and an easier place to start a conversation.
Less likely that there would be a decent number of girls, but the ones who are there would probably be better for you.
I said I didn’t go there for the girls, I went for the music and the good time,. I never ‘picked up a chick’ at any bar…and seriously from what I saw I wasn’t interested very much. Not into that scene… I usually went with friends and any girls I talked to or danced with were ones I already knew, and we would all just have a good time.
Twice girls tried to pick me up, once when I was 20 and once when I was 39…I was also single both times. I let them buy me a beer then made some excuse and left…and even though I had had a few drinks i knew exactly why…
I always wanted permanency and a long term relationship & marriage, not what comes out of the bar scene.
Seriously, many of the people going to bars to hook up were there with someone new every week…guys and girls…rarely did I see anyone steady with a partner in the bars.
I used to go to nightclubs all the time with friends. Good times. Looking back im surprised we didnt get bashed lol. We were fools
That’s is what clubs are for. It’s a lifestyle. Notches on the bed post. I don’t even want to imagine what it’s like. People don’t talk about stds much but I would prefer it if I never caught any of those things.
Still missing that stripper though.
Granted it’s her job to be good at constructing allure. The way she was looking at me vs everyone else. How she smiled when I sat down for the dance.
Well you knew girls there or went with girls there. So you prove my point. Girls were involved either way.
Would go to experience it if I can afford it