I felt out of place. Usually I am don’t.
We went for drinks at a pub - 3 couples then to a club. The guy knew someone so we got in.
There was even a woman dancing in her lingerie, it is supposed to be a nice place.
Even the music was not good. The DJ changed songs every 2 minutes so by the time I got into the groove, they changed the song.
Now I am stuck with a horrible hang over and nausea because of a few drinks.
I never drink shots. I don’t like how they taste and the thought of simply swallowing them is repulsive to me. I only drink red wine or beer, in moderation.
I used to love dancing, now with negative symptoms and a few extra kgs, I have to force myself a little bit, but I still do it sometimes.
Dancing is good 
i had 1 cocktail. 2 gin and soda (double) 
and also one rum and cola.
I did not have fun.
Drinking in moderation is crucial. I saw lots of drunk girls who could not walk 
But yeah I feel old, esp my bf is old and overweight… I don’t think he was happy. Usually I go clubbing with a few girlfriends, my age and we go to gay clubs.
I think you could have requested a few songs?
I used to go to one of the biggest dives in the city and enjoyed every minute of it, because I was there with friends!
I guess you won’t go out to the club with them again?
Lol you are not old at all. Maybe you could surprise your bf with a stationary bike, so he could exercise some at home?
it was way too crowded. I am not even sure where the DJ was…
Yeah We do not go a lot as couples… I just expect to have fun I guess. Also I did not drink a lot so I was not in the groove
we signed up at the gym , we are waiting for the opening in 1-2 weeks. It is a great place.
Last year he lost 40 pounds in several months. He can do it, it just seems food is his only escape 
I started being more conscious about my diet, two and a half months ago. I have lost 5kg (11 pounds) so far. Yes it is doable. Fortunately food is not my escape, I live a low stress life for now.
I wish you two a great time at the gym !! 
