Wonder-hook-up, not so much

Please don’t suspend me, I just feel lonely. Once again if the topic is not appropriate please just tell me
Im still very emotional after the hook up I had.
It turned out that the guy was already in a relationship. And I feel so hurt eventhough I was not in love, but just very infatuated.
I understand cheating, there could be a million of reasons for him to do that. I understand that he didnt tell me, because he didnt want me to say no to sex, what is what I would have, had i known that he was in a relationship. I don’t want to hurt other women.
But what I don’t understand is why he chose to seduce me? He is very charismatic and could easily have a hook up.
He knew i was schizophrenic and very fragile. Also he knew that I was very scared to have sex and that he would have to be very patient and gentle. And he agreed to do that but why? He could have had somebody else
Why seduce me? I don’t understand

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Because he was attracted to you. Stop overthinking.

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Sorry maybe I am a little in love with him afterall

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He is married. Move on.

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I agree with you.

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If it were me.

And it has been me,

I’d tell the partner.

They’ve been deceived and are living with a person who does not respect their relationship.

It’s a personal call.

But I’ve done it and it’s never been a bad, bad experience.

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Snitch! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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I’d rather masturbate than see a hooker

Having said that, I’d like to see a hooker lol!

It’s exciting that they are experienced and you never have to see them again.

It takes off pressure.

You’re a smart woman.

Idk how you found out that a hooker is married.

Sorry to hear you fell in love

I’m confused though, is it not to be expected that he’d have sex with you if you pay for it.

I don’t think I understand the details

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He was a hookup not a hooker…

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Oh shoot. Sorry. My bad

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We live in very complex different realities with many characters bad and good . You have to accept that reality and see the true. Sex is desirable fun thing but it must be with special to you human. You cannot just have sex with everyone. It hurts both people. Sex must be from love and compassion

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I would never ever pay for sex ever
He was a one night stand

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I will say it again. I don’t have a problem with sex workers if they are doing it by their free will choices
And I don’t have a problem with people paying for sex
but it is just not for me. I have never wanted money for sex, eventhough Im on disability i will never do that
And I could never pay a man to be my lover
I prefer men that want me even if it is just a one night stand

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Yes my friend was with a guy who turned out to be married, she didnt know, and suddenly the wife turned up and wanted to fight. Im very anxious it would scare the ■■■■ out of me if my hook ups girlfriend wanted to fight me

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@anon55055794, yes I would feel exactly the same, if one of them comes over to fight you :grimacing:

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If it was safe sex,it’s ok …
Be sure you didn’t get std.
MI people are easy target for sex,and many men like to score,so you were just a number.

Edit:from expirience heard from MI women

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I mean,

There’s always risk that she’s going to act crazy,

But she’ll probably just be angry, then eventually grateful.

This is probably not his first time cheating as he seemed to be very good at it.

She likely knows to an extent.

If you feel uncomfortable doing it, I understand.

Sending an anonymous email is also an option.

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I thought the point of hook-ups is that there is no commitment and both parties just go their separate ways after. But you’re looking for hook-ups that lead to relationships. Did the other party know this?

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Yeah @anon55055794 it sounds like you are looking for a boyfriend (relationship)

Hookups are purely sexual

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I think I was not being honest with myself about what I was looking for. Yes and that was kind of stupid
I have had many one night stands when I was younger, but apparently I am more sensitive now

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