I had another hook up tonight. And it was good. The guy was very nice and calm and it was very nice to talk to him. Actually he was good in bed too. But I don’t really feel anything for him. That is okay, because we just agreed to a one night stand.
But I can’t stop thinking about my last hook up. The guy who got back together with his ex girlfriend.
It is very strange. I’m not really in love with him, I can feel that I don’t have romantic feelings for him and I never hoped that I would be his girlfriend. I don’t feel lonely either. I do have enough friends here in Copenhagen and in my hometown. So it’s not for lack of contact, but I’m sad that I don’t have to talk to HIM anymore.
I miss him
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You will forget him in a couple of weeks.
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I’m impressed! Sounds like you aren’t demi
(I was worried you were demi after the last guy)
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Yes it is just that I don’t understand why he matters, when I don’t love him
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What does demi mean? Sorry English is not my first language
And why are you impressed?
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I’m impressed that you are finding guys so frequently, demisexual means you need an emotional connection to have sex
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Hmmm… Yes Im not quite certain if I need an emotional connection or not.
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Is possible the fact that he got back together with his ex is a factor? Sort of a “everyone wants what they can’t have” situation?
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Yes you could be right about that. That in my subconsciousness (if that is a word). He is more attractive because he is unavailable. Yes that could be possible
But also he was very charismatic and seductive. So maybe I miss the attention.
Maybe I was just stupid and thought we had something special
In my entire life I had one hook up
It turned out well
We both wanted the same thing for that one day
No one got hurt
But please stay safe @anon55055794
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