Oh, and in case I didn’t already make it clear: you are not a rock star. You are a creepy weirdo who likes to go up to random girls and make assumptions about their sexual preferences, and who then attacks other women for giving an honest opinion that you yourself asked for.
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Thank god. You have it absolutely correct - it was about the context. Thank you for your post. Just like you the girl wasn’t offended and was real as you are real person. I wish you a good night and thanks again.
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I think this sounds completely normal. It’s like (and correct me if I’m wrong). You were uncomfortable with your friends hitting on these chicks so instead of participate in what they were doing you decided to poll one of them as to weather or not she likes that sort of attention. It’s a different approach, granted, but nothing out of the ordinary especially considering the level of creepiness that some men will resort to with females. I think your doctor is a dick head for upping your medication because of this, unless it happened many years ago and you’re still stuck on it today, then maybe he’s doing you a favor.
If you look at Csummers post actually not everyone is offended as you are. I hope you would try and stop me talking to someone like the girl at the airport or somebody with the same personality as Csummers who isn’t offended.
Listen I am really sorry if I offended you and whatever the discussion I don’t want to offend anyone so I offer my sincerest apologies. I have found an individual who agrees and that is all I wanted so this thread had been a success for me.
I don’t want to be on bad terms with anyone so sorry again.
I’m glad you found one single person who wasn’t creeped by this story. I still wouldn’t use it as a general guide for how to behave.
You’re an absolute hero. Thank you so much for your post I really appreciate it. I think you are very kind and I wish you a pleasant day and evening.
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Then I completely apologise! I am very sorry. I have now got a couple of people who agree with me and that is all I want. I would never want to offend anyone and I am so sorry if my manor wasn’t good enough.
Please just accept my humble apologies.
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You are absolutely right there. Looking at some of these posts that would be a mistake! I genuinely think we are not disagreeing with each other we just misunderstand each other. I think your concerns are also my concerns.
Have a good night ninjastar I wish you well.
Your humble apologies don’t sound very sincere. Did you really want women’s opinions or just to find someone who agrees with you so you’d have an excuse for your bad behavior?
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I am currently operating under the assumption that you are on the artistic spectrum and genuinely don’t understand why anything would be wrong with everything you just said here. Is that correct?
I wish to find out any legal implications in what I think so I don’t get in any trouble. I also want to find out if an event took place that is disputed by some people. My intention isn’t to do anything at all just to find out the truth.
I have two people on here who agree with what I am saying and I believe the girl in the airport had a similar personality of maybe being a bit less sensitive than some. This proves that the girl in the airport could have been real and I am not delusional on the subject. This is important to me to find out. I don’t want to do any bad behaviour.
Your not the first person to say it and it could well be true. This would explain everything. Finding out if I am autistic is a key aim or this thread and for me in general. A good point ninjastar - I may well be autistic. Any help or advice on the subject is appreciated.
Then I suggest you listen very closely to the women on this thread who you don’t agree with and stop saying they would act completely different if a celebrity hit on them in the same sexist way. That is a pretty mean way of discounting their opinions. And honestly, it makes you look like a douchebag.
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Ok I have taken it on bored. I wish to stress I am genuinely grateful for all advice on this thread and forum. When you tell me I have done something wrong I am genuinely grateful because I have learned.
I have got all the information I need from this thread so everyone can let it drift down now. I am happy for this all to be forgotten.
I will explain it to you plainly, then. There was nothing wrong with asking a question in general. But when you were faced with opinions you did not agree with, you got defensive and seemed to completely ignore all the advice. You also used the “Well a celebrity could do it” argument, which is generally a way for men to try to excuse their own bad behavior towards women. To be clear, you should never look at what celebrities can get away with as a guide for how to conduct yourself in public. Donald Trump has just recently come under fire for this very comment. It is a very incorrect attitude to have.
Women, in general, enjoy positive attention but dislike creepy behavior. Since you have trouble determining the difference between those two categories, you should always err on the side of being more respectful at all times. Folks on the autistic spectrum are far more likely to get the “creepy” label than folks who can easily navigate social situations.
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Seriously? What about me would make you think that I’m in the market for celebrities, that I am interested in Justin Timberlake, that I want casual sex with strangers, that I would find any stranger, no matter how attractive, anything other than creepy as hell if he approached me out of the blue and made sexual advances towards me?
That you would make these assumptions about someone you don’t know at all is very concerning. It shows that your understanding of people as well as your judgment is out of whack. I’m going to again suggest that you don’t assume that any woman feels this way, as it is likely to scare them, and possibly get you arrested or physically harmed.
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