If you go to women for solace, don’t expect much…what I’ve noticed is women have no idea what the right thing to say is. Their timing is impeccabl-y…bad. Even when they mean well … They are so off with what they say In solace most of the time. If you’re having struggles…go to a man. Even my sister…the smartest woman I’ve met is just so off sometimes with what she says.
I know I’m gonna anger the feminists of the board…but every man knows women have their own strengths as man does…and “saying the right thing” is not one for women. They are too much emotional creatures. But it baffles me how many offensive things a woman will say when trying to be nice… Just my experiences, maybe I live in a weird world of bad coincidences. Or women don’t like me and purposely steer me in wrong directions. But I’m never taking a woman’s advice or solace again Lol.
It’s a sexist generalization and you know it. I for one, try really hard to say the right thing and sometimes I fail. I don’t see most men try to say the right thing and have heard the most insulting and out of place things said from the mouths of men, so I could say exactly the same thing as you but backwards. I just don’t think in terms of black and white like this.
I’m just going to sit here silently judging you now, after this, you know that right?
Honestly I think it has a lot to do with cultural conditioning too…men may be horny a lot and let things women say slide, but an asexual like myself tends to make observations into it all…while men are scrutinized for saying the wrong thing more.
U said the other day Sarad you take advantage of being a girl very well as if you can get away with things men can’t
Ttp, I think you look for patterns and draw conclusions where none exist. You’ve made posts like this about race, age, age within race, astrological signs, people who have faced psychosis, etc. In all cases, they’re sweeping generalizations that overlook the individual, and they almost all seem to be prompted by a negative interaction with an individual in the population that you’re generalizing about.
So I’m going to say, I’m sorry about whatever happened that’s upset you now. But consider that looking for patterns where none exist is the nature of the illness. You’ve got a quick, pattern seeking mind in overdrive. Keep an eye on what it’s doing.
