Question for women:

Is it true women like the outlaw? Whenever I hear women talk about men they say, he’s nice, but sometimes I think they are into the dark side. I’ve been very confused by this discrepancy. What is it women want? I know they don’t want a guy who is serious, in the beginning, and I know they are turned off by boys and guys who are too sweet. What do they like, the dark or light?

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Everyone likes different things in people. Everyone is attracted to different qualities.

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If a guy isn’t assertive and can’t hold his own emotionally, I can’t tolerate him. I have to have someone who is strong, I don’t mean physically. And yeah, I’d prefer an outlaw to a suit any day.

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I think that there are plenty of women out there who like emotionally strong men.
Any sign of weakness and they run for the hills.

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I like a guy who can fix a flat tire (a man’s man) but who is sweet. I can even handle if he can’t change a tire (he has to call someone) but is sweet. I like a dude who can sing :notes: and hold an intelligent conversation. And if he can make me laugh I’m smitten.

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ha, it may depend upon how poor she is, or was raised poor.

who knows.

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My husband was sweet, kind, and giving from the start. I quickly fell in love. My first husband was the bad guy, spent a year in jail, cheated on me all the time, and would get physically abusive. Our marriage lasted 6 months. So having an intelligent, hard-working, generous man was refreshing. I think a lot of women want a caring man.

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My husband has always been thoughtful and romantic. He remembers everything. So much so that I cannot mention that I like something without him trying to get it. He’s sweet and sensitive, but is “manly” without being a lumberjack type.

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I would need a strong man to keep me grounded if you will, that can hold me through the bad days. I am attracted to the bad boy persona however.

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That’s the way it looks from my perspective, but a lot of these men who are “emotionally strong” have weaknesses. They’re more vulnerable that you’d think.

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Not all women are the same. My husband is very sweet and doesn’t get into trouble. He’s a good guy. I adore him

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Im an assertive person. I can make decisions on the spot anytime. I know how to do guy stuff.
Im not so good at being empathetic or tuned into emotions. So i can come off as cold or uncaring at times even tho i dont realize it.

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ZombieMombie I like the old avatar better!

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Sorry. I needed a change. This one is more “Mom-bie”

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You mean women are attracted to criminals? I think most aren’t.

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I like intelligence in women, not only emotional but also intellectually.

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You sure? :smirk:

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ohh gawd. I love this video. We have the collection.

Have you seen, Annie Are You Okay?

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Yes I have its good :+1:

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I like a guy in the gray zone, I prefer a 50/50 relationship, so if he’s a bad boy but caring, I want to be treated with an open heart and I’ll leave my heart open for him, so if were ying and yang well fuse into being one

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