Will everyone leave me?

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It seems my relationship with my auntie and cousins is really bad.The reason being is my negative thinking and anxiety.I just can’t help but started thinking negatively when I see them no matter how hard I try to not think such way.

My social circle had improve on making friend part,all thanks for meetup where I meet people whom some had mental issue or just social anxiety.This improvement and discovery has been helpful to my mental wellbeing,I am not too isolated because I know there are people who think close to me and some had similar experience which j also do…I just had to keep going

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Even normies don’t get on with everyone, even family. Maybe your auntie and cousins could be partly to blame if you get on with the rest of your family.

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Yea,I think my image and my behavior is sort of stuck in their mind and also mine,haha

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If they ever ask you how you’re doing, just say much better since you got (on meds/changed meds/the right meds/). That makes it more of a medical issue for them instead of a personality thing for them.

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I think it’s hard for some of my extended family to over look some of my past behavior…

But little by little… as I’ve healed and as they have become more aware… it think it’s gotten a bit better…

Of course there are a few who I don’t try and neither do they… so oh well…

but there are enough people in my life that I’m not alone…

@everhopeful is right… not all family members get along.

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Haters gonna hate

Potatoes gonna potate

But seriously just do your thing and if people don’t like it, well that’s their problem. I say that because I know you and I know that you doing your thing is just fine.

Some people hate it but have to give me respect. They know very well that they would just give up and or off themselves in my shoes. I outperform normal people like it’s just no ones business. I’m fortunate to be an intelligent type A prick in addition to everything else that is wrong with me.

My family is cool though, they seem to understand very well what I have been through and what it takes just to do what I do on holiday. That’s my maternal family. Paternal family wants nothing to do with me and thinks God did this to me for not believing in their traditions or some ■■■■.

This is a biological, neurological, chemical, physiological and organic problem. If there is a god, it didn’t do this, this is genetic.

If people leave you, good, they either help or hurt in the end, better to let them get gone the ■■■■ away before further damaging you. My family is very good to me, especially my uncle and grandparents, they are educated and don’t blame me for this. Instead, they tell me how proud they are of me.

My methods of coping are controversial and also orthodox at the same time. Medication compliance, openness in therapy, pursuit of insight to a professional level, I mean come on I’m either getting a masters or doctorate in psych. Yet I also do ■■■■ like listen to metal for hours, lift weights excessively, and have a militant attitude about this life.

Well it gets results, the best results which one could ask for, or even demand. I don’t always enjoy this. I enjoy making progress, I don’t always enjoy the process of making progress. It’s analogous to what Ronnie Coleman said, mr Olympia for a decade- “everyone wanna look like a bodybuilder, ain’t no one wanna lift this heavy ass weight, well I do it anyways”

People enter and leave your life for a reason. A good friend of mine told me that. Remember that. Don’t even pay attention to my rant, just remember what someone who has seen it all told me, which I am passing on to you.

People enter and leave your life for a reason.

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