I am living with my parents. I have two elder siblings who still maintain contact with us. They just live across the street. We can look at their apartments outside the window.
After my discharge from the hospital, my siblings have stopped talking to me. It has been three years. I have never been invited to their home again. Sometimes they come over and we stay in the same room for a few hours without any conversation. It is as if they don’t see me. Sometimes I open the door for them and greet each of them. They avoid eye contact and say nothing. If i talk to them, they usually act like they cannot listen clearly and therefore do not respond. I have tried to send them text. Not often but I did. No immediate response but yelling later when we meet. In recent months, my family began to have dinners together but leaving me at home. They only invite my mother or my father.
IDK, I think it is clear enough that I am not welcomed. But it often comes up to my mind I want to better get along with them. My friend suggested me to take up a job and avoid seeing them. I don’t know. Doesn’t sound like a good idea.
I wonder if any of u have similar experience and have got some good advice.