During the pandemic we bought tickets to Spain for my cousins wedding. My cousin I didn’t get married there in the end so we got vouchers. My mum
Wants us to go somewhere but there is no way I’m going on holiday with my brother. I don’t want to. He drinks I hate it.
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Don’t go.
You are a grown ass woman,
Tell them no.
I hate having to deal with drunks too.
It’s difficult and heartbreaking.
They’ll guilt you, but hold your ground.
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She is running away every time I have a conversation with her I’m “stressing” her out. She’s gonna have to deal with it. I’m not going. End of.
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I think I was overthinking I’ll go but just ignore him. My mum needs the holiday as much as I do.
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I wouldn’t do it…hate drunks.
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Ask your brother not to drink or to just keep it away from you
Is he really so inconsiderate that he can’t just do that for you?
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When I get there I plan not to go anywhere with him. I’ll just explore while he sits there drinking
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Yeah I’ll just part ways while there. Ignore him.
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Did you get the industrial? I decided not to get a helix, but I tried to stretch my ears to a zero gauge today and I realized that I need to wait a little bit
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Not yet but I’m thinking of it as I really want to … how do you stretch your ears do you have to go to a place to get it done
So my ex-girlfriend pierced my ears with a needle and a piece of wax or a piece of fruit or something. I can’t remember then I went to a place and they used a hollow needle. This was later on, they used a hollow needle to open the gauge of my ear so that I think took me to something like a 16 gauge or 12 gauge. I can’t remember then. I stretched from there with a gauge kit and now I’m at a 2 gauge.
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If you don’t want to go, don’t. You’re under no obligation to go. Other people’s feelings are not your responsibility. If it will affect your mental health, don’t go. It’s really important to take care of yourself when you have mental illness.
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