Why is there so much argument here?

[Bowens]

Bullying and its affects on our mental health

How can we constructively move forward in life? Somehow we must be able to break away from things that happen in Childhood or early Adulthood but it just seems so difficult to do so. I am guessing as they say formative years are very important to development. If people can really understand how this leads to being damaged goods… For the last 10 years I have been drifting through life, unable to form personal relationships with other people It just seems like such a waste of life, and I don’t know if I am to blame - in a sense that I use the bullying behaviour and all the violence I experienced to excuse my inability to make new friends… Maybe this is on me. I am an ■■■■■■■