well I tried to meet up with a guy I met on Saturday but freaked out and had to sneak off and leave. I went to a festival - first time I have been confident in ages. and met him and he was nice n stuff, but I didn’t trust his eyes.
why am I freaking out - I had that much of a bad vibe I had to ring crisis team.
Sorry about that! It is a great victory that you were confident going to the festival though!
Dating makes me freak out too. Men make great friends, for beers and laughs, as long as they are willing to stay at a decent distance. Any closer than what I’m comfortable with and I too run away in one way or another. Tango dancing is my exposure therapy. 
Do you have this with all guys? How are you with new people when there is no dating?
Yea stay away from bad vibes
Always trust your gut. I believe you that he was creepy in some way. Don’t let good instincts stop you from looking for someone. Now you know you can tell when something is wrong. That’s s very good thing.
Most people I get the vibe with and avoid them xxx not just guys
I understand…It is always a bit difficult what is a genuine bad vibe, one that is right, and what is a paranoid feeling. At least for me. Not sure if that is the same for you. If you have a bad vibe though, you should indeed not continu dating!
I’m past the dateable age. No one wants to date me anymore. I’m too old now at 59. I know this because no one ever approaches me anymore, and no one ever responds to my online dating ads. Which is perfectly fine with me as I have zero libido due to all of my AP’s and my anti depressant.
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