After talking with him for two weeks, i will meet him this saturday. I’m happy for it but my confidence is at an all time low, the fear of failure is killing me, i can’t have positive thoughts and probably i’m not good enough for him. I didn’t tell him that I have schizophrenia because i’m afraid of being rejected for it. I just want to feel loved by someone.
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Dating can be hard, just try and be yourself and go in like it does not matter if works out or not. expect nothing and it takes the stress off
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No its not easy - but just try not to treat the date too seriously. Its harder for us Sz’s - cos we have the added difficulty of managing the crap that comes outta our brains as well.
Have fun. I hope it goes well for you. And dont put yourself down - your both equals.
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Hey at least you are trying although you need to love yourself before you have a realistic chance of truly being loved.
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It’s just a first date. Don’t try to think long term yet. Just think about enjoying the date. Try to have some fun.
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That’s the right approach. I hope this works out for you, and you have a good time.
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Just remember that being nervous is a pretty normal thing to do. It is like preforming at a gig, you just do it anyway. Just because you are nervous does not mean that you will not enjoy yourself. Just try to be yourself, and if it does not lead to a second date, maybe you will be a bit less nervous the second time round.
I agree with @Blizzard
I’m not going back in the dating world until I feel more happy with myself otherwise I tend to just end up in toxic stuff
Don’t come across as desperate.
This is where I screw up.
$.02
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