he happens to be a c psychologist. But I’m not sure I want to meet him. I told him everything on my first msg to him. But now I’m getting cold feet.
Why are you getting cold feet?
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It’s a figure of speech. I’m not sure I can do this.
Loll i know. I mean whats stopping you?
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You just may need to push yourself out of your comfort zone. That’s where much of the world happens!
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I’m nervous and anxious and I’m not even sure if i want a relationship or am ready. But then I know I’m old now so if I’m not ready now then when will I be
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Age doesn’t determine when someone is ready for a relationship. I know plenty of older people who aren’t mature enough for a relationship, and some teenagers who are.
I don’t know if I would like dating a psychologist or not. He might be like Notmoses and try to analyze everything you do. On the other hand, he could be really cool and understanding. I guess, like most things, it all depends on the person.
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Cj is right, you’ll only know if you meet him. Maybe getting cold feet is your brain telling you you want to meet him 
reversed psychology
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Sounds a little self-sabotaging, Ishy. You should meet him and decide whether you’re interested in more after that.
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Life contains an element of risk. Ask yourself what is the worst that is likely to happen. He might be an arrogant creep, but what have you lost if you check him out? I think I remember you talking about other possible dates that you shied away from. If you’re okay with being alone maybe you should skip dating all together. Personally, I think the possible rewards outweigh the possible penalties. You might really like this guy. Give him a chance. If it doesn’t work out, then tell him to get lost.
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you are thinking about it too much. just go. you will have a great time.
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