It’s not fair, why do we get it so hard? I just want normal things like everybody else
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Even normies find it hard. But I know what you mean.
I feel the same most days…feels like I’m usually swimming upstream when others are floating by.
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It is hard for all of us. It is a battle everyday but I’m thankfull that I’m alive. I force myself to do something each day and that keeps me going. I drink my meds religeously but even that is becomming an effort to me. I think it is the negative symptoms of this illness that makes it exstra hard to cope. I think that we are tougher than most people out there since we have to cope with sz. It is hard enough to deal with this illness let alone all the other things in life we had to cope with for example a job, relationships and financial stuff. I don’t have a job nor am I in a relationship but I’m doing my own financial stuff such as paying the rent or buying food etc. Why it is so hard to have all the stuff society expect from us I just don’t know. I realy do hope things go easier on you as time goes by.
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Lots of things are unfair in life. Lots of things are hard. That’s just the way it is. We got dealt bad cards but you just have to accept it and do the best you can with the cards that were dealt to you. Count your blessings, it could always be worse. It isn’t written anywhere that life has to be fair or easy. I’m in the same boat as you. My mom died recently. That wasn’t fair. I ended up in a psyche ward and I had to take two months off of work. That’s wasn’t fair either. I had to leave my housing.Very unfair. But I’m doing the best that I can and I get rewarded sometimes.
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference”
Look at the big picture. You think it was fair to the 50,000 innocent Iraqis who died when the U.S. invaded their country because of faulty intelligence by the C.I.A.? You think it was fair to the dozens of people to be beheaded by ISIS? You think there’s much fairness going on in the Middle East where average citizens are being killed by suicide bombers when they are out shopping for supper or having a cup of coffee at the local cafe after a hard days work? The world is not a fair place and it never has been and never will be.
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