All men do that, its biological. Most woomen don’t. Its just that some men are good at hiding it while others are not. It depends on shyness.
As long as he’s not flirting with other woomen, there is nothing to worry about.
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Thank you. I appreciate that.
Both men and women look at other people. Its not conditional to one gender or another, its human nature. People who say men are hardwired to look at other people are probably correct, but it would also be correct to say that women are hardwired to look at other people, as are non-binary. I can’t think of too many people who wont give a quick glance to someone they find attractive.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with looking at other people, regardless of who’s doing the looking. I will say that it is more respectful to be discrete about it, not just for the partner’s sake, but also for the person you’re looking at. Being stared at by someone you don’t know is a very unsettling feeling, I don’t care what the person looks like who’s doing the staring. I get uncomfortable if its someone who I am attracted to, and generally speaking if they are staring at me I won’t be as attracted to them. I’m not talking about quick glances, or meeting each other’s eyes, but when I’m out with friends and someone is checking me out I get uncomfortable. One of the only benefits of putting on so much weight has been I don’t have to worry about that as much.
To summarize my long post, most humans will look at other people, its perfectly okay, PSA: don’t stare.
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Men are hardwired to look for multiple mates
Whoosh! If you are male-bashing it went right over my head and I didn’t take it that way. If you’re married to someone and they’re obvious about checking out women in your presence, then it’s alright to male bash--------------him.
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Jimmy Carter is my hero.
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Funny a lot of men well say to the man how nice of a ass they’re wife ass is. Dose that count.
Note men are men. And if that’s bad. Your not.
Basically, the same reason Mallory kept trying to climb Mt. Everest.
You can’t control noticing attractive people and thinking they are attractive. It’s just evolution, guy or girl. But you can control what you do about that. For example, I’m in a dedicated relationship. When I see a really attractive guy I’m just like dang he’s good looking and then I move on with my day. I don’t sit there and ogle him or fantasize or anything like that. If your husband does that it is disrespectful to you. To behave that way is a choice. My boyfriend has told me he does pretty much the same thing when he sees a pretty girl, he goes dang shes pretty, but I have a girlfriend I love and he moves on with life.
Hmm.
Married Men Probably Look at Women Because Something About That Woman Caught Their Attention.
Be it Clothes.
Perfume.
Energy.
Maybe She Smiled at Something And The Married Man Became Curious.
The Earth is a Strange Place.
And Married Men, Or So I’ve Heard, (From Married Women), Can Be Much Stranger.
It’s not the looks that are the problem. It’s the talking to and using others as a source of comfort alien to your relationship. Looks are nothing. Shite. A nice painting can get me just as worked up as a nice looking woman.
It’s just nature. Most men are visual beasts. And yes we are beasts. Don’t ever forget it…There is something to flirting. It keeps us human. Looking at women like a player or flirting when they shouldn’t is the problem. You have to have boundaries.
Nothing Odd About Thus Post at All
Loking at too many faces too many times is bad too. ive come a long way to stifle the natural instincts. The make women insecure and give too many wrong impressions. You can be drawn away by your own lusts to not a good place. to strong delusion and unmitigated wrong actions. Men should do what their ladies want- keep focused on them. You know their has to be a reason for so much broken hearts- time drifts on. But what is stronger your love for your woman or to get distracted.
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