Where can I meet regular people? to chat or date?

I’m paranoid schizophrenic.

I can’t find anywhere. It doesn’t have to schizophrenic event my social game is top tier Just invite me to a place where I can socialize. I tried the dollar general with some clerks they aren’t intrested and paying woman to chat with you doesn’t seem good if were gonna go the pay route is ESCORTS the only way to get a GF expierence to be in the same room with a woman and whatever happens happens nah I’m saying.

But if were not paying Just do I go straight up to star bucks and look someone to chat up that’s willing to listen to me and see if they like my talk game or charisma is.

I live in a small town and there aren’t many places to meet people and bars don’t seem like the type of people I wanna talk too. I wanna to talk like regular people.

I know there’s people out there that want the same thing as me mainly woman.

if i gotta pay I gotta pay I rather pay with someone I can see in person then talk on camera or phone I don’t even get that.

any ideas? seems like starbucks is my only option out in the country small rural town.

because my socialization is not a problem but dollar general clerks aren’t intrested and I just look bad trying to talk to them there at work they don’t care.

thanks for reading and have a great night.

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I have the same problem there’s like 500 ppl in my town. When I shop I’m so paranoid I get in and out. Online chat sites all want money. I totally understand your problem. When you figure it out let me know lol.

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You’re probably gonna have to pay to join some website/app to meet people. And you’ll have good and bad experiences with the people you meet. That’s just the way it is.

Just pay for a month and see how it goes. You don’t have to spend hundreds of dollars.

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Again, we need a dating site for people with schizophrenia. I know we’ve established that relationships where both partners with schizophrenia wouldn’t work, but it’s worth a shot.

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You might meet people at the library. They have recovery schizophrenic groups, who talk. Probably people at a community mental health place. Starbucks is a good place.

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They already have some dating sites for people with disabilities, I don’t know how good they are…

https://www.disabilitymatches.com

https://www.nolongerlonely.com (Apparently this one sucks)

https://www.disabledmate.com

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I don’t think casual physical romantic encounters happen IRL trade numbers anymore. Its all online. I think it can happen by chance through any forum or dating app. But it takes work, socialization, back and forth. So many variables go into whether two people will end up meeting up.

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NVM I have clue about dating to be weighing in on this.

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Go speed dating.
Try all the free online apps. Tinder,bumble,pof

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I need a carer rather than a date. Both don’t exist at the same time sadly.

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I’m 41 when I was a teenager. Thats how meeting people went. I was a recluse from like 2008-2018. But back then and in my teens I had no skills to talk.

But now I do I come back to society in 2019 and everythings changed.

I still try to do it how we did it when I was a teenager up until I was in my mid tweenties.

But thanks for letting me know I met some people online I have like 10 people I’m talking but everything is a money exchange and for some reason I decide to talk to woman who are in other countries like brazil kenya africa nigeria.

I’m talking to someone from kentucky but I’m still skeptical they asked for my addresse to send me a gift I got my guard up because I’ve been dupe before the fact she won’t come talk to me on the phone and I have her number speaks volumes. But she’ll share photos clear work of a maybe scammer!

but I’ll talk to them see where it leads

the first person I really connected still won’t come on camera or phone a lot

so go figure I have no problem doing the work for someone who really matters

so yeah.

@Juliesftw
Okay - be careful with scams. I mean the internet can take advantage of people. I don’t know all the scams out there to say becareful of anything specific but you just got to be careful.

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nah bro. You have to be super hot to get casual sex I’m fat and disabled lol

and dollar general clerk won’t talk to me she knows what I want

haha.

so it’s easier online and I’m not afraid to come on camera.

but thanks for the heads up.

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I got recommended fat chicks on Bumble I quickly deleted that app after that.

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Church. Take a class. Volunteer job.

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Gosh why does the world have to be so dangerous. I hate thinking like this.

Well if ya run out of choices :man_shrugging::grin:

Oh i just read your fat and disabled above. You cant be choosy then lolol

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Street corners.

Parks at night.

Old sewer tunnels spray painted with “free hugs” on the entrance.

Labyrinths.

Crashing escape rooms(they’re locked in with you!).

Fight club.

Dog shows. Specifically look for “Furry Conventions”.

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Lol Last time I stopped at a street corner to check my gps a hooker got into my car. I told her to get out then she said she has all sorts of drugs in her bag, I told her to get out again and she finally got out lol

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See, you met an interesting stranger, had an adventure, and didn’t walk away with any scars.

Street corners dude, only good things can come from them.

:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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