I was so ready yesterday to go on dating sites and find a girl but after an hour I quit, i said to myself that I don’t need the trouble.
I do this constantly, I was talking to a girl last month and suddenly I felt tired of her and cut her off.
I did this at least 5 times this year.
I have the motivation to met somebody but then times pass by and I do not want to meet anybody.
Is something wrong with me?
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Well you can kind of lose enthusiasm with schizophrenia
How old are you
Maybe it would be better if you could meet someone naturally by getting out and about
I haven’t met anyone but I’ve met some I fancy and feel that I might get lucky one day 
But I think getting out and about is better than online dating
I get very disillusioned by dating sites
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I am 21. But I have times when I would kiss a frog and when I would not kiss the princes
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It’s kinda silly that my cousin just got out of prison for a year and a half and already has a beautiful girlfriend 10/10 looks. You can go to a psych ward for 2 days and then no one wants to see you ever again.
21 is a really young age you don’t need to be desperate sometimes when you want something too badly you frighten it away
I would think about getting out and about
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My friend got out of prison 2 years ago and he have 2 girlfriends I know about and more
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Yeah 21 I was too young for a relationship. Patience in this will get you far in life ;). I’m just learning this now and it’s better late than never. Harder to be patient when you really need to be. Like. At 21 years old I wish I could inject a bunch of patience into my arm.
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The problem is that I think I intentionally sabotage my chances, because even that I have a big belly I still have oportunities to get together with a good looking girl. But I don’t do my part, I just become friends with her and then forgot about her
I am not really desperate except for a few moments
Maybe you just aren’t ready
Find other interests maybe
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Set yourself goals
For instance by the time I am 23 I will have a girlfriend
You misunderstood me. In the majority of my time I don’t need a girlfriend but I have some moments when I really need one and theni get close to a girl but I loose interest preety quickly and I forget about her. My problem is my duality, I think
have a wank instead mate. it saves the hassle of having a woman! I was like you for a while wanting the company and the benefits that go with it - and now i cant be arsed. Personally i want a relationship but they always do my head in after a while. Maybe your just not ready for a relationship yet.
One of the best advice on this forum 
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@anon73425833 you could go for a girl with no MI in my opinion
Thank you, I appreciate you.
Funny story: I was talking to this 27 yrl old girl with a form of sz and she was really into me, we talked for hours on the phone everyday, in that period I used to drink a lot and she keep telling me that if she was my girlfriend she would not let me drink so much. She was always giving me hints about her being my girlfriend. She used to dream about me every other day as she use to told me. But one day I got so drunk and horny that I started to act like a pig and ask her about nude photos. She laughed at first thinking in was kidding. But I keep insisted and after that our relecionship (spelling) preety much ended
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Oops, sorry to hear that.
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I just send her a SMS. Maybe she will not respond
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Hey crocodal whats up… may u get this girl…!!!
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She respond with “who’s this” ?
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