I was married to an abusive wife. she took my boys from me… And money… then my sanity…
now i in a serious relationship with the gal i am presently with.
I would get rid of marriage long before I’d disparage divorce.
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I’m glad I got mine, I don’t think it’s anything to be ashamed of.
I got divorced. It was 90% my own doing. Worst choice I ever made but can’t change it now
My parents divorced when I turned 18. My sister was 14 at the time. I went with my dad the alcoholic but the big money maker at the time to live on a family homestead with. Sis went with mom to live in a trailer house behind a rowdy bar in a small town.
Long story short is both my sister and I felt a little screwed over. Kids always have to pay more than they know.
I’m neutral on divorce.
If my mom had divorced earlier maybe I wouldn’t have ended up a quivering scared mess for my young adult years (years of being pinned to the floor and screamed at point-blank in the face daily by my stepdad)
I believed my marriage would’ve lasted forever and man was I surprised when she decided to leave me…swore off marriage…I have a gf and we have been together seven years now…nothing is gonna change…
I went through a nasty divorce, long story, but after that experience I swore would never marry again
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Yeah my mom has a bf and they have no plans to marry. Both of them are divorced.
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I like it as I like marriage. I got married it was great. Then not so great then divorce. Neither stops me from doing either although one leads from another. Not to confuse the confusion but I’m a fan of marriage and divorce.
I was married at 23 and divorced arms 28… in my opinion, getting divorced was easier than getting married. I was heart broken when we had the divorced, but antidepressants helped me to get through the rut.
Everybody should have one. It’s a status thing.
I agree with you. I vowed that we would be together, “for bettter or worse, in sickness and health…” I take those vows seriously.If my wife and I do get divorced, it will probably be over her stupid, useless parents. They are the single biggest source of strife in our relationship.
We marry to be officially together and we divorce to be officially apart.
I went through a divorce in America in 2000, 21 years ago. Actually I just went to a court hearing. My former spouse and her lawyer told that they are going to send me the divorce papers to my address in Europe. I still have not received any papers. There was a meeting at the office of my former US spouse’s lawyer after which I took my things and drove to Miami.
I don’t know what to think about it except it reminds me of an old song.
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