I’ve been divorced for years now.
I’m not in touch with her and we don’t have kids.
My marriage towards the end became abusive.
She was a psychopath who also suffered with borderline and possible DID.
I’ve been divorced for a few years; I’m sorry yours was abusive
My husband was good to me, but my unmedicated self was too much for him to handle—so he dropped me off at my family’s house and that was that.
Yeah I’m divorced. I left years ago because she did some sketchy stuff. I still talk to her now and I have a step daughter involved too. It took a while but she’s on a different continent which helps things. These days I don’t really blame her…she’s almost lo bipolar and I can understand why she did what she did. I’ll ring her to catch up regularly and talk on the phone!
I’m over the blame game and we have a decent friend relationship! I miss some things about marriage. It’s nice to come home to someone and I liked married life. I don’t miss the same argument over and over and stuff but that is all past. No regrets!