In a relationship. And why?
I won’t judge.
Just curious to see some honest responses.
In a relationship. And why?
I won’t judge.
Just curious to see some honest responses.
You can only choose one of these for your next relationship… Imagine…
Chemistry. I don’t think I would want to date myself. By that I mean someone who is exactly like me.
Common interests and values and goals > chemistry = long term relationship
Chemistry > No common interests and values and goals = short term relationship
This is my unscientific point of view.
PS. I think some chemistry needs to start a relationship.
@everhopeful i only been in 2 relationships.
the first one was based on only chemistry.
Things didn’t go well when the chemistry goes away.
What are some example of similar values? Like political or religious beliefs?
I think you can develope common interests.
I think the most important thing in a lasting relationship is mutual interest in each other. I’d imagine after 10 years there is a different sort of almost complacent type of affection but for a relationship to last there has to be that in one way or another. That and some compromise.
I remember long ago being told, “Don’t say ‘keep on keeping on’ it sounds stupid.” Lol compromise.
Yes, but if you don’t have shared values it won’t last.
Like if she wants kids and you don’t for example.
Makese sense. I’m sure that is a factor in many failed relationships.
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