What do you look for in a dating relationship?
Sometimes I think beauty is important. Other times I don’t care. Other times I don’t know. It isn’t the most important thing. Is beauty the same as physical attraction?
Chemistry and common, Personality, Humor, Hobbies and Interests are somethings that perhaps make a healthy relationship.
2 Likes
I guess maybe chemistry and common things are the most important.
2 Likes
I feel who have treated us well and who have all those similarities we go crazy.
1 Like
Yea… Vibes that click.
And common values.
I like a guy who has interests and hobbies and who has balance in life.
1 Like
Shared core values. Honesty. Kindness. Emotional depth. Just…feeling good around each other.
Physical attraction is important. But more in the sense of wanting to be near someone. Some I found very kind, and dated with…I just really did not want to touch. At all. I felt I wanted to get away from him physically. That doesn’t work. But it isn’t just beauty. I currently find someone physically attractive, that is quite ugly (sorry) to the modern beauty standards. Still, I am attracted. Somehow. By his way of looking, moving, his humour and creativity…don’t know.
2 Likes
Spiritual connection and intimacy and romance has become what’s most important to me I think.
Also connecting on other levels.
It’s who someone is and all they are.
If you are comfortable with them or enjoy being with them or immediate love for them.
Maybe sharing a laugh can be very valuable.
You can be attracted to who someone is and that is more than that six pack abs or perfect hair etc…
Maybe who you are attracted to in who they are and their vibe and aura but maybe they have a big belly but you are still attracted to them.
Having same values and morals can sometimes be ok if one doesn’t match there.
I have gone beautifully with people i have different beliefs then.
1 Like
I think I was a lot more superficial as a young girl. Looks mattered a lot more to me. I learned from it. Don’t date handsome ■■■■■■■■. Date kind men, no matter their looks.
1 Like
A relationship based solely on looks will get boring, very quickly. 
No one ever found me attractive so I stopped trying a long time ago
What I looked for was someone who says yes
I didn’t find it lol.
I’ve been out of the dating scene now for 20 year’s, I wouldn’t know if a girl liked me even if she gave me all the signs 
1 Like
I don’t really care, I prefer to be alone
1 Like
I believe it depends on a person,
Some are actually looking for beauty, some for intelligence, some for companionship, and some for the sake of having a relationship…
I actually want to feel good around a person, also what I crave for is respect, ofc love and feeling comfortable around that person.
But it changes- as a teen I wanted a popular Bf, then I remember there was a time I wanted a rich bf ((late teen years)) maybe it was parent’s influence, now I want feel good around a person. 
IDK what I will want after 10 or 20 years
1 Like
Not being a flaming tart lol. But ive had many women over the years. And if they are not faithful (cos they usually were not) - it always boils down to money and sex.
They want to be felt special - and have a jolly good shag afterwards.
Proper ladies are hard to come by round here. I want my lady to have morals and not get pissed up on a saturday night. Those are the ladies you want to keep hold of, and have children with x
Physical attraction is low on my list. There are more important things. Most important is willingness to get through life together.
That said if I become single. I would not look for a new relationship.
This topic was automatically closed 14 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.