I have discussed this with my partner. If he ever feels he likes someone else and wants to pursue a relatioship with them, I’d rather know upfront. Don’t cheat. I won’t be in the picture and he won’t need to do any cheating. It would hurt badly, but at least he’d be honest from the start.
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I guess the same applies to me, I just don’t get why people cheat though.
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maybe they like variety and fear losing one of them if they are upfront.
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maybe some people also get a kick out of the whole secrecy don’t tell anyone thing, let’s hide
but idk…
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I fail to get my head round it, however I guess it makes sense in their heads so…
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People wont be honest when they cheat, if they were, it would be called Divorce instead.
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I know what you are saying. But I also think that doing so, means that marriage isn’t really a marriage that was promiced from the start… that marriage becomes meaningless…
Absolutely right.
The one that is hurt is the one that thought they were married,
and
the other was just using the marriage for a cover to appear “like they are supposed to” to everyone else.
Cheaters don’t think with their heart.
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You stole my line @Csummers.
Yeah, cheaters are thinklng with an organ but it ain’t their brain.
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I don’t understand cheating at all. It mystifies me. Instead of having sex with someone, you can just not have sex with them instead. I suspect I would feel differently if I wasn’t asexual. As it is, I can’t fathom the concept of wanting to sleep with someone when you are dating another person.
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When I was married I was too friggin tired to cheat. I’d go to work exhausted every day bc I never slept good at night. Work 8 hours. Then I’d have to pick my kid up from after school care and then make dinner and maybe clean the house too. Help the kid with homework. My husband often worked nights so he’d be home at 1030 pm. I’d have to feed him when he got home. I’ve never been the cheating type anyway but I was just exhausted. I was unhappy in my marriage but I didn’t cheat. I was tempted though.
For the record he was an extremely good guy. He was just so immature and I had a hard time dealing with that. I didn’t want to be married to someone 30 going on 13.
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I’ve cheated before but never when I was married.
My ex wife cheated multiple times during our marriage.
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I don’t think it counts if you’re not married or engaged.
I might have been engaged but we were separated during the time @Loke.
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This stupid guy my sister is talking to can’t make up his friggin mind if he likes my sis or not. She said she was going to give him two more months and if he doesn’t commit she’s out. I think he’s scared though bc he’s been hurt a lot.
He’s really a sweet natured dude. Very kind. He’s been going out during this pandemic and giving 
dollar bills to and feeding homeless folks in his city.
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When I cheated my ex gf I felt confident and bad.
It took me a while to feel bad. I was very confident with every girl I meet.
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Can you cheat without a wife or girlfriend or significant other? I think I want to try.
It’s cheating when you’re in an exclusive relationship, meaning only the two of you, and one of you chooses to have sex with someone else.
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How does cheating “not count” if you’re not married? Have you ever been in a serious relationship? You can be in a meaningful, committed relationship without being engaged or married and there are many people who are together their whole lives without being married. Being cheated on by someone you love, married or not, is devastating, and that is a terrible outlook to have.
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I can probably answer most of y’all’s questions on about cheating but pls don’t attack me or be harash on me.
I’m pretty well known in my small town for cheating, I can never last in a committed relationship I always ended up cheating on my partners with multiple women. So eventually I decided to quit dating and just get laid when I want with whatever female I wanted. It had to do a lot with my confidence and charm. A lot people say it’s because I’m young and one day I’ll find the right women who will change all that but until then I keep doing what I’m doing.
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