I watch the TV show “cheaters”, and am fascinated by it. So, did you ever cheat while in a relationship?
- Yes
- No
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Ah at least 1 person is owning up to it.
Nothing to own up to. In AA we say, “if nothing changes, nothing changes.” I can’t run around and expect to stay sober. I’ve only had the one marriage, still in it, and I’ve never cheated on Mrs. Pixel. Never will.
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it is an intriguing question to ask if a woman can remain virtuous. it is an absurd question to ask if a man can remain virtuous.
What constitutes cheating though? Making out or genital contact… Or genital to genital contact?
any of it. they’ll imagine the worst anyway. as long as they think of you afterwards, things haven’t exactly gone to hell yet.
I don’t really care about it all these days…
Only when the other pricks think it means something do crap to get in my head and establish some competitive mindset.
Hate that crap. The right girls though know how to settle that ■■■■. Meanwhile freedom is maintained for both sides.
Still single people being single is different than a commited ordeal. I’d never cheat.
I think cheating is any close relationship you keep secret from a partner. Whatever the form of intimacy, if you can’t/don’t tell your partner, then there’s something wrong about it. I would not cheat. It’s deeply hurtful.
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I can’t stand cheating, I’ve seen what happens when cheating nearly ruins a relationship. my father was a serial cheater. Even had two kids out of wedlock.
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Nope. If the temptation got to be too much, I’d fess up about it and either work it out with my partner or break up with them before getting into anything with the tempter. I’d be a horrific spy. I can’t lead a double life.
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Would it be considered cheating if you were in an open marriage and the spouse encouraged being with others and you got their approval to be with the other person?
No never. I am now married and wouldn’t dream of cheating on hubby. Anycase with who? There’s nobody else.
Never have, never will. No sex is worth inflicting that kind of pain on someone you love.
I kissed my first love whilst she had a boyfriend. So I was an accessory to a cheater.
I think I’m probably guilty of “emotional cheating” from my last relationship years ago. The relationship was horrible, and I developed stronger feelings for a friend and didn’t always hide it. Lesson learned is that I should have ended that relationship sooner instead of staying in it out of psychological dysfunction type reasons. The relationship ended when he physically cheated on me, and TBH I felt a little relieved like oh thank god I’m no longer the only bad guy here.
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I’ve never physically cheated, but I emotionally cheated on my first boyfriend who was sexually abusive. I fell for someone else. We would just hang out and talk about life, but I would feel incredibly guilty afterward. Eventually I left the relationship after the guy I was hanging out with threw me the best 21st birthday party and Jerkface ruined it by calling to scream at me for going to a bar with friends. In fairness to him, he did have a reason to be jealous.
No, that’s just a poly relationship. It’s only cheating if the other person either doesn’t know or doesn’t approve.
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Few things are as rare and wonderful as the trust of your spouse. Whatever is done in secret that betrays and destroys this trust is cheating of a sort and that doesn’t necessarily require sticking one’s plug into someone else’s socket. If you know it will hurt the one you love, don’t do it.
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