Well, nobody’s perfect.
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We had a board games area for the introverts. So Mr. Star could go to another room and quietly play cards with a couple friends while me and my five million loud relatives danced.
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Not us. I was expected to talk to 5000 aunts and uncles and cousins and to remember every one of them 20 years later.
ELOPE.
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Mr. Star is faceblind. He can only tell three of my extended relatives apart, and that is only after almost a decade. Otherwise, they are all, in his words, “The tan guy with the beard.” 
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It amuses me that this likely includes female relatives. I refer to all female relatives my wife has introduced me to as “your alcoholic aunt with the mustache.” Good way to end the conversation.
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Arabs are known for our skill in hair growth 
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I’m not, nor have I ever been, married.
I can see where you might find a big wedding to be a waste of $$, and how it can cause all kinds of issues, like if relatives don’t agree on things, the guest list, etc etc. It could be really stressful.
I like the idea of getting married, just the two of you. Because that’s what getting married is all about.
BUT
I love having big parties where there’s a band or a DJ and there’s lots of dancing, and general merriment.
I had a big Bat Mitzvah. My parents had a big 65th bday (10 years ago) where I was the entertainment (singer). So… yeah. I guess I’m torn. Wedding dresses cost a fortune!!
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my first wedding we held in our extravagant modern home in oklahoma and it was all family and all friends and it was the best time at the time of my life…we served italian food and drinks all night and it was the best time really…my second marriage was at my house in my living room again but only three witnesses and a j o p. don’t reget it…much cheaper that way.
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I was only planning on getting legally married with little ceremony. I don’t know if that’s going to happen now or not.
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I’ve heard some people like root canal’s too. To each their own I suppose….
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There was an open bar at my brothers wedding. And everytime someone went to pay i would say… “Thats okay put it on my tab” i was quite popular needless to say.
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went to my brothers wedding was invited to my first loves but i was crushed at 21 still by that.
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I don’t like big weddings, if I got married then it would be something small…
The last wedding I went to was my sisters years back and I was very psychotic at the time…made me never want to go to one again…
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I’ve only been to one wedding it was quite a quick procedure. It was my dad’s friend I barely knew them.
I don’t know. If it was someone I’m close to I would love it. As long as I am aware there’s no anxiety provoking ppl there.
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I had delusions and voices that some actor was going to get paid millions to marry me and pretend to love me but only be acting/pretending for money.
Said would not want to marry me even if paid that much.
The drama of it put me off it.
It hurt me.
There was a time I wanted to marry but not anymore.
Too much beauracracy.
Too difficult to divorce.
Too horrible if they take your money or belongings on divorce.
I would lose my disability support pension if I married a working man.he would have to support me anc then i would be dependent on him which i don’t want.
I saw a documentary where they spent ten million dollars on a wedding.
That’s ridiculous!
There’s people starving.
To spend that much on a wedding when you think how many houses you could have bought for homeless people…… how many starving people could have been fed….
I wanted to marry my x as a gothic wedding.
I wanted a black wedding dress.
He is a home owner but on pension too.
I left him to become vegan but I actually wanted to marry him .
It’s not worth my while to get married.
Even if I married a rich man he could be cheap and i would lose my independence and be dependent on him n i don’t want that unless we made a deal with each other we both agree on.
He could give me money but only in a cool way and not to have any rights over me.
To make me more independent and empowered not the opposite.
A man has never bought me a ring.
It would take a miracle and a great business deal for me to ever marry and i would have to live him and be treated with respect.
Yeah wedding seems like a waste of time and money to me who is not religious.
I rather he buy me a house or a holiday with that money.
Our love doesn’t need beauracracy and paperwork.
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