… Most attractive in the opposite sex?
I love spontaneousity, care, honesty.
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This is so off the mark it isn’t funny. But I had to post this. It is from one of my favorite movies:
Harriet Michaels: What do you look for in a woman you date?
Charlie Mackenzie: Well, I know everyone always says sense of humor, but I’d really have to go with breast size.
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Aw, I hate not fitting a demographic. I’m rather aromantic, and definitely asexual and celibate.
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Attraction is an interesting thing. I used to think I liked a certain thing but love grows more on you than attraction if that makes sense. ie I think you grow to like more things and your ideas of turn ons and what you look for can become fluid and change over time with a person.
A decent relationship you both grow! I haven’t got there yet but I still find certain people physically attractive…would I date them? Depends on so much other information!
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It does make sense and I agree with the sentiment. I think I could fall in love with almost anyone as long as we could make each other laugh alot and they were considerate. Physical beauty is what you have to get past to see the real person.
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Your on the money.
It’s surprising what you fall in love with! My ex Mrs was from southern North America. Her accent was off the hook but after years of talking I don’t even think it’s an accent! I’m from a world away and she probably thinks the same…
That is what is good about relationships. You know someone other than yourself in ways that will surprise you!
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Yea I think if u are both able to grow positively from it that shows something is right.
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Sense of humor, I guess that is the sexiest asset that a man should have.
Lol looks are important and the personality thing is unexplainable.
Recently I liked this girl who had amber hair she had an interesting personality , I liked this girl working at a gas station who had Red hair and there’s this black chick in iop I’m attracted to because she looks 25 when she’s 40. I’m attracted to youthfulness in a person. I’m not sure if any of this ppl had things in common. I think you look for stuff you have in common with. I also like girls with red hair lol.
What I look for doesn’t matter. I just have to have the money to afford her. She on the other hand must make other men compliment me on how she looks when she is with me.
Money doesn’t buy love. My friend won $130,000 gambling in one night while back, never won him love
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Money is only one aspect. Being handsome, what your occupation is and also being wealthy grant you the best women out there. However, I’ll settle with being average looking, having a decent job and earning a decent income to get an average girl.
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Me personally, I’d rather have what you call an average girl. “You can make a 7 a 10 but you can’t make a 10 nice” someone told me once. I dunno if true but I prefer a girl who isn’t “perfect “ look wise.
Yeah, social class of the man and woman does matter. Usually it’s women who marry a social class higher than she is. It’s rare that a woman of a higher class marry downwards which is why as you say, “you can’t make a 10 nice”. A girl with the “perfect” look is going to have many other suitors competing with you.
I look for women who are different ethnicity than me. Me and my friend both agreed Hispanic girls are the best lol I like redheads too. I’m a mix of 7-10 different European/middle eastern heritages so I like girls mixed race/heritage/whatever. I’m mixed religion as well.
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Unless they’re non American. Then it doesn’t matter it’s always can be sexy.
Nope, not me. Same ethnicity for me. What do you call Europeans who have British, French, German and Spanish ancestry? Certainly that person is not mixed. It is well known that a beautiful woman of the same ethnicity as you will “turn on” a man. One reason why a woman of different ethnicity is a “turn off”.
My husband is smart, funny, easy going and handsome. But the thing that really helps us get along on a daily basis is that we are both very polite people. I think it’s something people should pay attention to more, manners go a long way in daily life. I couldn’t handle living with someone if they were rude to me no matter what other qualities they posessed.
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i dont look for, i judge other person by my perception
I did ancestry DNA, I am Italian Russian Irish Scottish Portuguese polish Latvian multiple middle eastern countries
I don’t identify with any heritage. Don’t get me wrong I like brunettes and blondes, but I prefer redheads and other races. I have brown hair and used to have blonde.