What do you look for in a potential partner?
Nuerotypical
No someone who complements me as a person and makes me feel whole.
Keeps me warm at night.
Is a night fairy as far as housework goes, but I’ll still do my fair share.
Looks after herself, as I can’t be doing with someone who never washes.
Honestly i didnt know what i looked for. I get along with a lot of people. It’s important to have an easy going attitude. I have become picky over the years though and i walk away a lot.
That’s better than say hooking up with someone just to stop from feeling lonely?
I think the easy going thing can go a little too far, you’d understand if you ever met my younger brother.
Walking away is hard, but sometimes working though a problem means you come out stronger! There are times when you should, but it shouldn’t become a personality trait
I have never hooked up with someone out of feeling lonely. Im more into compliments, hugs, conversations. I need time to get to know someone and develop feelings but i like everyone. I dont judge a lot. That’s what i meant.
Anyway I’m off to bed, It’s getting dark outside!
Goodnight cuddle bug
Able to laugh together. Life’s too short not to find humor in lifes Day to day adventures. Looks does play a part as well. And good traditional values. (Aka loves to cook )
I agree with that 200%
how come yall on this mentally ill peoples forum but sound like normal folks u are not sick u are jus fine
Trust me we have issues, you need to take it lightly and have fun. That’s what we’re doing
Thats why memtal illness is classified as an invisible illness since it isnt something you can just look at someone and know. Not to mention that alot of people on this forum are also in recovery and are more stable and on proper medication. Ive struggled my whole life with mental health issues but most of the people i know have no idea at all or dont know how bad it is. Also it presents differently in every individual. There are variying symptoms to every disorder.
thank you for your kind words.
Everyone wants to be healthy. We dont want to be ill and we do our best to cope and be productive. This is a support forum so that we all know we are not alone and suffering. That what we experience is also experienced by others. It can be more than helpful to many.
American citizenship. I think I made it clear by now.
hahahahah… I’d marry you too @Sarad just say yes!
Canada is much better btw.,…
a cute face a little waist and a big behind
I like charm. Charm and wit and intelligence. That’s most important. Then, someone who is not selfish in a relationship and who talks out disagreements instead of just sulking. Then, maybe physical attraction would be nice, but I’m okay with someone less attractive and more personable than very attractive and not charismatic.
I am horrible at relationships, so this question is entirely rhetorical to me. Right now, my “bed partner” is not charming. He’s actually kinda selfish, too. He is just very physically attractive, tall, muscular, and he keeps tracking me down somehow whenever we break off the hook ups (didn’t even know he knew my last name, guess he does since he found me online using it). My friends tell me to break it off. I’ve been sleeping with him since like 2014 though, so it’s kind of a bummer trying to, this is the longest I’ve “been” with a guy in any capacity for many years. Most of my actual relationships don’t hit the 6 month mark. I’m socially and romantically inept.
I see a line of red cars and they’re all painted black…
i look inside myself and see my heart is black
i see my red door i must have it painted black…
[my angst in Rolling Stone song]
whatever makes you happy. You need to be selfish without hurting other people. that’s the trick. If he makes you happy in any way… it’s good. if he bother you… dump him. once a wise friend told me… dicks are of low value.