Attraction ❤. What is an "attractive personality"? Also a note about social value

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I was thinking about the factors that make someone attractive (imo it’s different a potential partner than a one night stand).

-raw physical attractiveness (pretty obvious. It can be subjective imo)
-decent income
-lifestyle (passive or active and what type of activities)
-perceived social value

Maybe personality too. But I’m not sure what an “attractive personality is”.

Can you help me define it?

Also, the more I’m part of a group, the more I think social status or value is like… everything.

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Good to see you on the forum bro! Hope your doing ok :pray:t5:

Humble, compassion, sense of humor are things people like …I think

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Well I ■■■■■■ it up personality wise then :rofl:

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I’ve been really busy bro. I’m trying to forget about that one girl. She’s just mean to me and I don’t even want her friendship that much anymore.

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That’s great that your keeping busy man :smile: I happy for you bro!

As far as that chick just don’t make her a bigger deal than she is :person_shrugging:t5: it’s plenty of chicks out there man.

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Yeah I know I’ve been busy in that sense too. The problem is that I see her daily. And I’m week: I want to be tough and ignore her.

I mean, you know what I mean…

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So she’s really something then? Well just keep your head bro :sweat_smile: you might have to just go through it lol

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Definetely. She has that social status as well.

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Maybe count it as a good thing man. Your starting to mingle with people and you found a chick u like. Maybe next you find one that actually works for you and you guys have some fun together?

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Yeah you’re 100% right. She’s a monster musician btw :sweat_smile: and she knows it. That is like 50% of the attractiveness. That’s what I refer when saying social status.

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God damn bro… She sounds attractive as hell lol. Creativity…skill and pretty :heart_eyes: no wounded youy hung up on this girl lol

Are you guys cool or are you just crushing on her?

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I ignore things like this

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We’re definetely not cool. At least from my part.

At first we looked at each other like we were interested in each other.

I tried to force like a friendshio or something more and I realized she was beeing just mean most of the time (something weird like mean and nice some times).

Now I realize that I don’t even want to be her friend. But I wouldn’t mind to… well you know lol

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I understand @Joker. Actually me too, but this phase hit me hard idk…

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Gotcha gotcha !! Well keep it movin bro😎

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Intelligence for me.

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What about hard work? :sweat_smile:

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Loyalty is another great one. Also, someone who is calm and stays cool in tough times. I don’t want a drama queen; that’s my job.

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I find secretive people highly attractive.

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Damnn I’m really doing things the other way around :sweat_smile:

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