It’s how I’m feeling at the moment. I could go into detail but I won’t.
I basically feel like a single mother of 3 (cos he is like a child) and I don’t want to be a single mother of 3. I signed up for 2 kids not 3.
I’m considering asking him to leave but it will get messy. There are kids involved. Money involved. It just wouldn’t be pretty.
Don’t know what to do.
Write it down and save it somewhere private so that it can’t be found. Getting it out is the first step. Maybe discussing is the second step. Do you have access to a counselor?
Separation is always an option. You could ask him to go on a vacation or something to think about it.
Can you put a little money aside so you can afford to move out with kids or is it your place you are living at?
Will he become violent?
Or verbally abusive at thought of losing you .
A man named mj Harris always recommends breaking up over phone or from a distance such as pack n move while he is out because he could turn abusive.
Maybe you have someone close who can support n help you.
I feel like this sometimes. Possibly not as intense as you’re feeling…
But for me the feeling is fleeting…
The next hour I’m in love with him again lol
I’m really sorry you’re so down…don’t know what to say…hope it all works out.
Thanks guys. The house we are in is in both our names. But mine primarily. The rent comes out my account.
Yeah I am feeling really down about it.
Maybe it’s just been one of those days I’m not sure. He would not ever get physical with me I know that. He is harmless. Can’t even make a cup of tea let alone plot to hurt someone.
I am due to see a psychologist in he next few months. But that is to do with the trauma of the birth I just had. Whether or not she can help with relationship is another matter.
If hes being stupid he can change if you talk about it and he makes an effort
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