I’ve complained about it before but my love in partner just isn’t pulling his weight and I’m at my limit with it officially. I keep giving him more chances and only getting more reasons to leave him. I hate it because I truly love him but it’s not going to work. I can’t rely on him for anything. I am always wondering if he’s going to have rent or utilities this month and with the move he’s not put in a lot of effort to find a new job and when he has he’s fallen flat on his face. Over the weekend he drove 4 hours one way and had 3 interviews lined up and didn’t end up going to any of them because he was way under prepared. On top of it he almost ran out of gas on the way here. I can’t marry a man child.
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I speak as someone who lives with a man-child….he won’t change and if it’s not something your prepared to deal with I would leave now.
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Did you tell them how you feel?
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I told him I decided to move out here alone but I haven’t broken it off.
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Yea some people might feel bad because they don’t wanna think “Im not gonna leave the person I love over money”. And that’s fair. But if someone doesn’t try and abuses you through neglect that’s not right. It’s not about the money, it’s about a) the person not trying (which may be acceptable in some cases if they’re depressed or something) b) them taking from you in excess when you yourself are sick.
Not telling you what to do but I can understand where you’re coming from. If I saw they were trying but just couldn’t make money I’d understand. But if they’re just not even making the slightest effort it’s a sign of disrespect and neglect which you then have to clean up which may be beyond your boundaries.
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