I’m a woman with schizophrenia,
I have a child.
This is not about mental illness,
Its about lying and using a person.
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Apparently it’s you and yaz who think a woman would not want to be around you and have your children, thus the insistence on not revealing the sz diagnosis.
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where did i say that? i am hoping i find someone that i can start a family with, i think this is where yaz was coming from, he may not have worded it well but i see the sentiment.
blah blah blah blah meh
That is what the whole discussion is about. He said repeatedly that he would not tell her, or if he did it would not be until after she is already pregnant. You’re the one cheerleading his plan - did you not actually read what he had to say?
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you are not actually helping the guy, just giving him a telling off, i know what you are saying but i don’t understand all the negativity.
That’s because you agree that using a woman, who you may or may not love, for a child and keeping secrets from her that are as important as serious chronic mental health problems is totally okay. I’m not at all surprised you’re supporting this mess.
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The negativity is for his plans to deceive a woman in order to get her pregnant with his child. It’s not for having a baby - you’re talking almost entirely here to women with schizophrenia who have had a child or who wish to have one. No one is arguing that having a kid is bad. Deceiving someone in order to do it is the problem.
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We just told you what all the negativity is about and you continue to support his asinine plan.
Come on,
How can you not see the problem here?
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idk what you are saying at all, you are twisting my words
What words am I twisting? I think you need to go back and actually read this whole thread.
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He even says its a ■■■■) thing to do.
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i’m not talking about this anymore, as i said he may have worded it badly and i think he may be a bit misguided but i think he means well, i dont think anybody would want to use a woman in that way, thats why i gave him the benefit of the doubt but you all just judge him and put us down.
YOU AGREED THAT TELLING THE TRUTH WAS A BAD IDEA!
You’re just as guilty as he is.
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you dont know where i am coming from at all, and you never will
That’s sweet of you, @daydreamer, and I appreciate where you’re coming from. But he’s defended this plan repeatedly throughout the thread, so it seems logical to assume he’s serious about it. Telling him that it’s okay and you sympathize isn’t helping anybody - not him, not his future partner, and absolutely not any child he might have.
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Thank god for that.
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All right, I think this thread had stopped being productive. Yaz, don’t lie to your partner.
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Wow. @LED achieved the impossible!
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