About my brother, I mean. It’s only been in recent months that I’ve noticed what a control freak he is and I’d like to think the reason he’s causing me stress is because we’ve been in each other’s hair too much lately. I was okay with someone coming in to clean my apartment just the once, but I just haven’t had the energy to get the stuff to have it done a 2nd time. Now he wants me to ask my case manager if there was some way they could help me with my grief. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t the first time I have seen narcissistic traits in him, although my sister in law has also expressed her concern. I hope I’m not reading too much into this, but he’s kind of driving me up the wall. I’m looking forward to seeing my pdoc at least, on Friday.
My brother is the opposite. He doesn’t care.
I’m sure your brother just cares. Like your sister in law.
I hope your right, @everhopeful! I just think he and I need to have better boundaries.
Yeah sounds like your family cares about you.
I guess, what I’m dealing with is not just the loss of a mother, but also the potential for the loss of all of human civilization. I know, I can’t control it, but I’m frightened nonetheless. I’m trying to have a life for myself, but it seems some of the people I meet want to make me their “special project”. You try to have realistic expectations for yourself, but these people think I should go for more than I’m capable of. They make me angry, and I know I shouldn’t care. It’s just so hard to keep going in the face of it all. Do you know what I mean?
My brother also doesn’t care.
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