Idk what’s wrong with me. When I image sex with s girl I like u start crying because she’s too pretty and I get really nervous imagining us in the same bed. I think if she kissed me I would start crying. Sometimes I feel like I’m gonna cry looking at her face idk why I get that nervous and embarrassed looking st her. I thought I’d grow out of it when I became an adult but 23 I feel like I haven’t chang d since 3.
I have a similar problem in that any time people start to get close to me, either psychically or physically, I give off hostile vibes. I’ve noticed that when I talk to a teller at a bank I am pushing hard against the wooden barrier between us - I am pushing them away. I have gotten sex on a few occasions, but it wasn’t all that great. I’m about to decide that sex is way over rated. I enjoy being alone, much of the time. I need some interaction with people, but not that much. Life isn’t bad for me much of the time.
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That sounds really similar to how I’ve been feeling. Well it’s hard for me to even begin thinking about sex with them. I get really romantically attached and usually just become known as the creep even though I didn’t touch them or anything. It’s sad cuz I had a lot of trauma in my childhood with my folks divorce and I told this girl that she’s my princess and I really love her and I got severely bullied to a point I dropped out and left school so I’m scared to even think that sth is actually possible.
Not sounding patronising - but your only 23. Maybe you just have not had the life experiences yet - to be comfortable with a woman.
Just relax.
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What do u mean life experience:p
I dunno - I used to get nervous around woman - the trick is if your thinking it is to get the expectation of sex right out of the way.
Woman ive known have picked up on that, and talk to them like human beings. Ive got many female freinds that have stayed in my bed fully clothed - but the idea of it going further would seem ridiculous if you knew us both.
Its all down to your own self-confidence. dont see it as a challange - see it as two people getting to know each other.
Its hard to explain - but when i was in my twentys i put the opposite sex on a pedestal, cos i never thoght i was good enough.!??
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