It is bad for your family to treat you this way, but, unfortunately, if you want them to take you out to eat you have to play by their rules. It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth it.
I have said this before that is emotional abuse, I dont understand why you are willing to put up with it, are you really ok with that? I have heard it makes you believe them. You should get yourself away from the situation before it is your own fault for being around it.
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In the uk we can get help with assertiveness training, I dont know if that is something you could ask your mental health team for. Sorry but that must be the only reason you put up with it.
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I think learning to stand up for yourself is hard, but important. Keep it up and you’ll find people respond to you more genuinely when you do so. I’ve been struggling with this for a long time.
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Only you can decide when enough is enough
To hell with her, she’s enabling the abuse. I suspect they’re mainly using you for your benefit $$$.
DISCLOSE ALL OF THIS TO YOUR CASE WORKER PLEASE.
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