Does my partner and i have a right to be upset?

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last Thursday was my partner’s birthday, they said they would celebrate her birthday this weekend. we bought a cake and said we would celebrate Saturday before she goes to work. my partner was over there all day until she went to work and they didn’t say a word. today is sunday she’s just getting off work and they brought over the cake . the very last piece. They ate the freaking cake without her!!! I bet they do the same thing on my birthday

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I would say thats as rude as it gets

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It is killing to hear the abuse you put up with over there. I wish you would go live with your parents and make your partner see that she should change.

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You really don’t know the answer to your question?

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That’s pretty rude…

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My inlaws are acting like its no big deal. I think they brain washed my partner cause now all of sudden she is okay with it. She said she doesn’t want to fight. It’s complete ■■■■■■■■

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I feel for you, and moving your life from one place to another is not easy, BUT, over and over you have situations of abuse from these in laws. They’re horrible people. And you probably only share a portion with us of what you actually experience.
Short of moving, I’d love to hear about you at least standing up to these people. Create boundaries to keep yourselves safe from their inappropriate behavior, and let them know it’s not ok to mistreat you and/or your partner under any circumstances.
What a bunch of creeps they are!

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I hate to say this but sometimes I think they are almost bipolar. sometimes they treat us well and other times they treat us like crap.

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I have never heard of a time they treated you well, unless they were secretly gaining from it. Like giving you a phone so they could charge you more for rent.

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i know they are ripping my partner off too. they charge her 95 dollars for the cost of her phone and so kay pays for their tv. now they want our computer all the time. they get mad when I take it home with me because they want to use it. I want out of here but that’s not going to happen any time soon.