Dont get it. I was trying to do a good thing by letting my bro stay here. Now him and his girlfreind are in the bathroom all night shooting up meth. I told him i didnt want drugs invthe house. The girls homeless and shes got all her stuff here and I told him i didnt want her here. Thats trivial. But I’m thinking they are manipulating me with thier tone of voice, there thoughts. Are people in this world really knowlingy against God. Is the world leaders really knowinly serving satan. I dont know what to think. The bad part is there really annoying me right now. I can feel it in my chest. Im a nice person, and one of my niggest fears is to hurt somebody, but i feel,think thier trying to get me to be nasty to them
that sounds rather complicated, idk what you can do, you can either let them stay or try to get them to leave, if you want to get them to leave then you may need to get the locks changed or something, dont feel bad about it though, i wouldnt want anybody doing drugs in my house like that and it is your house.
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I guess I know what to do. Just a little bit of pyhcosis though. It’s going to be really really tough to kick my brother out. Its more complicated then it seems because we have some strong old ties.
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what if you just said ‘you guys need to leave’ no hard feelings, have you given them a chance to look for somewhere else? that might be a good idea, give them time to get their own place or something.
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Yeah, well said. I think that would be the thing to do. Thanks 
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No I haven’t yet. The thing is he would probaly end up on the street, but he is pretty resourceful, hed be ok in the long run. Itd just be hard
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By doing drugs in your house he is putting himself and you at risk of getting in trouble with the law.
Plus, after four years of drug addiction myself and living the drug addict lifestyle I will just say that when it comes to drug use, it is not as simple as the mere act just getting drugs an using them.
Any time I’ve done drugs, whether it was high school, or afterwards, stuff is going to happen: Drug deals are going to go bad, he’s probably hanging out and getting drugs from a bad crowd, when he runs out of money there’s a chance he may steal to get money for drugs, he may start trying to borrow money, he may bring undesirable people in your home besides the woman there now. Meth seems to bring out violence in user’s.
There’s just so much collateral crap that comes along with drug use. It may start off slowly by doing drugs in the bathroom at night but it can easily turn into bringing other people home to do drugs while you are not there. He’s your brother but you got to put your foot down and get him out of there. You are worried about offending him or hurting him but he is not showing you the same courteousness back. You are respecting him , but he is not showing the same respect back. That would motivate me to not feeling bad about asking him to leave.
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Your right man. Thats really insightful. It does have to stop or hes out. I’ll tell him tommorrow. Thanks @77nick77
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