Some of the guys here are behaving very strangely. They are trying as hard as they can to intimidate people from going out on the patio. It’s not just smoking weed or drinking. It’s something pretty serious. The idea behind their behavior is that we are supposed to be too afraid of them to go outside our rooms. I would have been willing to look the other way. I would have been willing to not comment on their behavior, but they’re taking it way too far. If I just wait ten minutes out on the lounge for my brother to pick me up they get very hostile. Their answer to that is for me to tell my brother not to come visit me anymore. That is way too much. I refuse to be a prisoner in my own room. If they try anything on me I am going to squawk to staff.
They told you to tell him not to come??
Actually, these messages I’m getting are intimations, but I believe that they are, in fact, real. I would bet my survival on them being real. I might be making a mistake by snitching about them, but I don’t want to become a prisoner in my own room. It’s beyond galling. I really hate it.
If they aren’t saying or actually doing anything, why report them? They have every right to use the s0ace if they live there, too. You can’t base their intention on your thoughts or feelings.
Might it not only be that it’s unpleasant or awkward to be there with them maybe because you are totally different type of people? Doesen’t mean that they are out to get you though.
I have every right to use that space too. As long as they don’t interfere with my right to use that space too I won’t say anything about them, but they have been giving me all these intimidating little hints. A fresh dog skull with all its teeth intact and whole appeared just outside the walkway to the wood patio. If you take that together with all the other stuff that is a pretty heavy hint.
No. The thing is that I spend so little time out there that it makes me mad when they try to intimidate me into leaving. I just sat out there waiting for about ten minutes for my brother a couple of times, and each time they were communicating great displeasure at my presence. I would not have spent any time there if I wasn’t waiting for my brother.
No, it isn’t. I have a whole animal skull that I found and kept because it’s neat. Not as any hint.
You’re just making assumptions on literally nothing done to you, just “hints” that you admitted were feelings of yours, nothing they have done or said.
Before reporting them for using a community place, try saying “hi”.
As long as they don’t try to harm me I won’t say anything about them. But they say 90% of human communication is nonverbal. You can convey some very strong messages through indirect means. I would not dream of reporting them for using community space as long as they’re not hurting me or anyone else.
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