The downsides of positivity

Optimistic (positive) people believe in this one principle: Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.

If you look at this link you’ll see quite a few of these self-made billionaires started from nothing and had many failures, but they all had the ability to change course and navigate through the system. Many started with nothing, several were orphans.

The only good thing about pessimistic people is borrowing money from them because they don’t expect to be paid back.

http://fundersandfounders.com/how-much-sweat-it-takes-from-zero-to-billionaire/

I went from being mentally ill, alone, and homeless to being part of a family unit that brings in over six figures. Couldn’t have done that if I hadn’t made a decision to be positive. It really does work!

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Person A: I want to start a food chain!
Person B: I want to start a food chain!

Person A: Business is booming!
Person B: That other chain is doing much better…

Person A: We should try to put that other business out :smiling_imp: kick them while they’re down
Person B: Well, we’re done.

There are more examples, but there is always an issue of balance. That is the problem with this world. It cares so little for real justice. It takes more than it needs and gives nothing back and cares little for human relations.

Ugh, something that needs an essay written out to detail just how selfish and indifferent the world is becoming.

Well then you should write a book!! Lol.

The way I see it, and ive thought deeply about this, is that positive thinking is enough for someone to make their way out of a really really shitty situation while gaining strength, but positive thinking isn’t enough for the big questions like God, suffering, death, etc. People try to make positive thinking into another savior. but Its a great way to enjoy life more but in the bigger context its not The Answer.

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Already lots of excellent books out there:

I tried writing photography books once. Didn’t like it.

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Did those people also come from being homeless with mental health issues?

I’m mainly interested in success stories from people with bad mental illness. Elyn saks was very inspiring to me for example.

Dunno. Does your doctor have to have a broken leg to help treat yours?

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That’s not really the same situation. My point is I want to see stories of success from people who come from a similar situation to myself.

Define success. I consider myself a success for even surviving what I’ve survived. Don’t let society tell you what success is, its plain wrong and even the people at the top question whether they’ve really succeeded

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My favorite quote on success, “If I avoided being eaten by the other creatures in nature, is that not successful?”

Don’t know who said it, but it is gold.

and “Parents would rather their children be a salesman than a Saint.”.

Just goes to show how backwards the world is.

Yeah true. I mean to me success is just being content with where your life is.

They’re pretty rare. You may have to create your own story. As someone who values privacy, I have no intention of documenting mine.

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Anna the Koch brothers want to drill into the grand Canyon

Don’t think they’re content

Sounds true to me…

For me success is being able to think for yourself and to have a realistic, optimistic mindset

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Lol to me a realistic and optimistic mindset are in conflict w one another

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Yeah, me too in a way, I call it realistic optimism. Seeing the glass half full but acknowledging that its also half empty.

This I do agree with, but it has nothing to do with success.

If I got cancer and there was no way to cure it, I could choose to take it with a smile. That would indeed be positive. Would it guarantee that someone is going to bring a cure? Certainly not. Especially not if people are concerned with indulging themselves in living a life of selling “stuff” to people they don’t really need.

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Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.

I know not everything is wonderful, but complaining all the time and being bitter doesn’t help. And it makes sure people don’t want to be around you.

@Genbu

James Hannon is the CEO of Georgia-Pacific, a leading manufacturer in the pulp industry. One of their main products is toilet paper. You don’t need toilet paper?