four years ago today my beloved Mother passed away. It seems like everyday I think of her and wish I could talk to her just one last time. if your Mother is still alive please take the time to tell her you love her, get that recipe you can’t live without, ask that question you’ve been waiting to ask because today might be the last day you get to talk to her. Once she’s gone, that’s it. And when she goes, she will definitely take a piece of you heart. So please don’t miss your chance to love her while you still have her.
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Hugs. Thinking about this brought tears to my eyes. I love my mum more than anything. Sorry for your loss.
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My greatest loss is undoubtedly my education. I joined in computer science master’s program and at the same time this Schizophrenia hit me, that is nearly 23 years ago. I really struggled to complete this program and with great difficulty I completed it. After that most of the time I was jobless suffering from the disease and ended up doing small jobs here and there. Had my life been normal I would have been in an excellent position as software engineer. So this is my greatest loss I am still suffering from it.
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Can’t you see her in heaven💖?
Hugs dearest💖
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U are daring bade bhai…u atleast completed ur degree…aap sakte ho toh job karo…it will suit u…i have tried a lot of job cant succed…i wont try now…life ■■■■■ weak…!!!
With my mom I just hope we can mend things before one of us dies. I wish she cared enough about me to try.
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I’m very fortunate to have my 84-year-old mother living in my house. She took care of me for so many years, so now I have the opportunity to take care of her.
My father died 29 years ago, and he slipped into a coma before I got the chance to tell him that I loved him. That hollow feeling will stay with me the rest of my life.
I tell my mother I love her everyday. I’ll still be devastated when she passes, but the fact that she knew that I loved her to the end will give me comfort to carry on.
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I’m so sorry for you. Hugs from me too. I can only imagine how difficult things are for you since losing your mom. I’m so sorry. That’s got to be devastating. Thanks for the advice
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thank you for the kind words @Hop3, it’s nice to meet you. I hope you get a chance to love on your mom next time you see her.
that’s lovely that you care for her. I cared for my mom in the limited way she would allow. She was fiercly independent and stubborn too. I would have to trick her to get her to let me do certain things. I had her convinced that I actually liked doing housework, lol. Oh mom.
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I lost my mom to breast cancer eleven years ago, and I took it very hard. I lost my dad to a heart attack four years ago, but losing my mom was harder on me. It gets better with time.
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@Noise for a long time I felt unloved by my mother because she is not a warm person. There are no hugs (seldom) no feel good chats about the past, no kudos. So I took all of that to mean she didn’t love me. But as I aged I realized she loved me in her way. The woman would do anything to make sure I was provided for, she would talk to me until I was able to grasp a point I needed to understand. And when I actually accomplished something she would smile and without saying a word tell me how proud she was and how happy she was for me. And god help anyone who hurt me because then they would have my mother to contend with, and she was the strongest woman I’ve met. I certainly wouldn’t have wanted to be on the receiving end of that ass whopping.
Sorry for all my nostalgia - my point is it’s possible she loves you in her own way and you must merely accept the love she gives in her terms and set aside you preconceived notions of what love looks like. Good luck with you mom.
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Unfortunately my mom is not like that. She puts everything else before me. When I need support there’s always a time limit there’s always something that needs to be done. Her hobbies are more important than me chores are more important than me money is more important than me. She’s not proud of me. And when I was younger the way she abused me was abhorrent. She almost killed me several times back then. But I’m trying to repair the damage but I can’t do it alone. I like to think she cares. But she really never shows it always guilting me and treating me more like a burden than a person. I wish she would try.
I’m sorry you’re not cared for by your mother, you must feel horrible.
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I do feel horrible and it sucks cause i feel so alone my voices care about me more than my mom ever has.and everyone loves their mom and I guess I love mine too even with everything she’s done but when the talking about how caring and wonderful and supportive their moms are I can’t relate. I’m sorry @Leaf I didn’t mean to make things so much about me I’m just not ok today. I’m happy you love your mom even though she’s gone I hope I can feel the same way about mine at some point.
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I too lost my mom a year and a half ago and I miss her very much. She was my trusted advisor and I don’t have her anymore. Not so easy to replace. If you still have your mother, cherish her.
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