Strugging with social skills

Did anyone else lose all your social skills after being diagnosed?

I haven’t been diagnosed with anything other than psychosis, but since I had my first break I have lost a lot of my ability to socialize and communicate with other people.

My anxiety is always high and I can never seem to get what’s in my head out into the right words. I struggle with the order in which to say things and can’t seem to summarize ideas anymore. I stay quiet most of the time now because of that, and because I can’t seem to make the connections between thoughts and ideas that are necessary in making conversation with other people.

I used to be a pretty smart and dynamic person. A fun person to talk to, I think.

What the hell happens to your brain after you suffer psychosis? I guess things just get messed up.

In any case, it’s a lonely life when you avoid being around other people because talking to them makes you anxious.

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I can relate. My social skills went down after I turned 20, they just got worse and worse.

The loneliness really does suck.

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im the same…not good socially but used to be

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I can’t socialize as good anymore either. I usually keep to myself at work.

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i had social skill deficits from birth bc autism and since i grew up with it, i was able to actually learn some social skills. once psychotic symptoms arose i did notice i often felt “empty” in my head like i couldnt find the words to say, but since that started young too ive been getting better with it too, so in a way i think im blessed that my conditions started early so i was still able to develop around them, so to speak

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I have no social skills, been alone so long now, when I show up at places I lack the skills most people have

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I have always been shy and had difficulty with making conversation. It is very lonely and frustrating. I missed out on a lot of life’s milestones. I often have thoughts of suicide because it is just too painful.

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People harassed me all the time in the early 2000s. If I could have I would have sidewiped or mow them down and kept going.

Nowadays on a bicycle you’ve got balls to the ■■■■■■■ walls with Chihuahuas chasing you.i end up chasing him back down a ■■■■■■■ hill I have to come back up.

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Me too.

It can be incredibly difficult.

I used to isolate and etc…
Because of symptoms.

My mum said it is noticeable and that I don’t come across as a “normal person “.
She thinks I have Aspergers and am just a really sensitive person.

It does suck n so does loneliness and not connecting etc

Love :two_hearts: to all here on schizophrenia forum and good wishes for us

May we love kindness compassion etc

Love to us !!!

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Some people are easier for me to be around.

I try.

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