do you ever wonder if you have a soul mate?
Nope, I think finding a significant other is more of randomness & chance. Plus, mutual interests, identical social status and common backgrounds. Also, you have to be able to communicate in the same language.
my soul-mate likes me …maybe…she likes me she likes me not and so on
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It’s a lot of randomness I feel. Like say you met your significant other on july 22nd (today) your moods might align so that you are feeling good and the chemistry is aligned that day and it just takes off from there. Then maybe instead you meet on July 23rd and you both are feeling pissy that day and it just doesn’t happen. And you never know what you were missing from that great potential relationship. Unless you believe in a higher power of course that makes it meant to be. But I’m not sure about that
we ALL have a soul-mate
Yeah soul mates not sure =(
I think anybody could be your soulmate or soul twin men or women.
Nah I don’t believe in randomness it’s what you make it, and that’s true all the way
My soul mate probably belongs to someone else since i didn’t put the effort to win her over anyway since I figured I could not play the relationship role I wanted to play. Even if it’s “meant to be” people will move on anyway because no one is getting younger and certain life goals have to be met. Besides it’s not like we can pick and choose who we want anyway. You have to have the same goals, the same values, and the realistic viewpoint that age will get us all in the end. Don’t pick a pretty face if you can’t get along with it’s wearer. Some day the wrinkles will form and the hair will turn white and then where will you be? If a person wants a baby you have to agree to have one with them. If they want you to go to a church with them then that’s where you go on Sundays. If they want you to help take care of their kid then that’s what you do. If you want to change something annoying about them you’d better forget it. Relationships are more than sex and games. I’ve watched my parents and my brothers go through relationships and child care and it’s not always a party or a picnic. I have chosen to stay out of that scene so far and at the current time i don’t see that changing because I have trouble handling getting along with others when the fun and games are over and the serious things have to be done. That’s just how I am right now.