Hello everyone. I have a question how do you know you have found your “soulmate”? For the past 3 of years, there has been this guy that I’m still deeply in love and care about still do this day. It’s been bothering me for the longest. I feel like no matter how many other guys I go out with, he’s still there lingering around in the back of my mind.
I don’t believe in soulmates … i think that it’s possible to have feelings for multiple people, people of your past still. does it necessarily mean you want to be with them? no. but you embrace the good times you had together, and be thankful you could experience them…
were you in a relationship or just someone you were very interested in?
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I was in a relationship with that person
‘The one that got away’. It took me years to get over a girl. The best thing is to move on from it, somehow.
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I like to think that if I truly wanted someone in my life, they would be. We’re all where we’re supposed to be, whether we know it or not.
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Murphy’s Law of relationships…
When you’re single, you sometimes wish you were attached.
When you’re attached, you sometimes wish you were single again.
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I think it is possible. I think it can be more than just bf/gf though. I think my sister has a best friend that is her soulmate (my opinion) but thats just looking at their relationship from the outside. I used to have a bf i thought might be my soulmate after dating someone else for a while but he chose his job over me kind of… Said i deserved someone that doesn’t work overtime every day and meet with clients on the weekends. I don’t feel passionately like I once did about things in general now. I think my own emotions were too scary for a little too long when I was sick and it tamed me to a mellow. In general I don’t know if it is possible for two people to not hurt each other at some point. That kind of defeats the soulmate-ness.
I may never see her again but i don’t think I’ll ever get married just im case
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I have met mine and recently put a ring on her finger. All i can say is you know when you find him/her. i didnt know until i knew. And when i knew it was an awe inspiring kind of know. If you are debating whether they are “the one”, they usually aren’t.
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