That’s close but still a little too far for me unless she like REALLY likes the medicated look. In that case there’s a Hilton hotel on the boarder that might be more appropriate ;). Jk
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I was very skinny all my life and gained so much from meds that now I’m fat, and very insecure about it. But having said that I never liked very skinny guys and wasn’t all too concerned about muscle…I don’t mind guys that are on the heavier side…I’d prefer it over them being to thin.
Now that I’m overweight I feel uglier than ever and feel like no guy would ever be attracted to me or want to date me. In my experience I always thought women were way more pressured to be thin than men.
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Haha when I was psychotic I thought she was trying to sleep with me so I sent her innapropriate texts while drinking. Didn’t get me anywhere. Nah she’s professional ;). And commited to her husband!!! But she’s done wonders for my self asteem !!!
She sounds good though, mine won’t admit that I look medicated. According to her it’s all in my head. But I know differently. It’s not just a matter of liking medicated. Reaction time and responsiveness all come into play. Not to mention the libido which is in the toilet after months of latuda
its been proven though that a woman is more willing to date a heavy set man than a man is dating a heavier set woman. I saw a report about on the news a few years ago.
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Bigger dudes are preferable to me, and so are bigger girls. I have only dated one skinny person ever. His ribs kept poking me and it was not comfortable. He was pretty shocked when I dumped him for someone who was overweight, but I like what I like.
Many people are attracted to the heavier look. But these types of people aren’t likely to give appraising glances to everyone they meet, because looks aren’t as important to them. Also, many of them feel ashamed for their preferences, since they aren’t as socially acceptable. They also tend to be more on the shy side.
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I’m sure that you just feel that way because you know you’re not your natural weight. But I bet you’re very pretty and nice too. You would be suprised, I think women have it much easier than men when dating.
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I think I feel the same way about me. 
but I agree that there’s more pressure on women.
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Sz men have it tough dating because it’s like either “what’s wrong with him” then they find out you’re sz and that’s a turn off!!! I always thought men have it tougher dating but it takes two to tango! I think it’s just me being sz that makes me somewhat undesirable…
Thanks 
Idk I just feel like women are taught at a young age of what they are supposed to look like and it’s not being overweight. But I guess guys can feel just as insecure or whatever you wanna call it as girls do.
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Again great insight, I’m writing this stuff down @Ninjastar thanks! This is like an episode of what women want only I’m not Mell Gibson and I’m not hallucinating. You’re actually giving me the inside scoop. Yes a young blonde was giving me the eyes last night at dinner and she appeared to be on the shy side. Maybe she could tell that I’m not a sex charged alpha male like all the other normies try to be out there. I’ve actually had to learn to cope with delayed gratification and having my cake and not being able to eat it. So those are the girls I should be looking for!
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That’s an odd comment, especially coming from your therapist. 
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What I’m trying to say is women don’t find the damsel in distress role attractive but men do sometimes (often). I know I do. But they don’t like me back. !!! Those damsels in distress. Are looking for someone with their head screwed on right.
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Girls with problems tend to have a much easier time than men with problems. I just read that somewhere.
There is so much pressure on us men to be successful and competent. Having any kind of psychosis blows. You take a major pay cut in the nookie department. But there is always that random unstable normie woman that’s smoking hot and loves madmen. I’m holding out for another one of those
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I definitely feel insecure about myself. I always did too. I have all sorts of issues around my weight. So I can definitely relate. But a lot of guys don’t mind girls on the heavier side. As long as they try to look nice that’s all that really matters
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Besides(and I might get banned for saying this) but most females are a few cards short of a full deck anyway. Even the most high functioning ones lol. I’m out!
Yeah the percentages are against us but if you’re persistent enough you may meet the right one??? Maybe not. But maybe. I give off a little bit off bad boy vibe which helps me. But looking young hurts me but there’s a 19 year old tatted and pierced girl in my class who seems to like me. It’s a start. I figure if girls get to know you you have a better chance. It’s when you have no chance to get to know them you’re at a disadvantage. I’m in school so it’s easier to meet girl(s)
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And you’re wondering why you’re having trouble with the women…
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There’s hope though for the royal flush cuz they’re only missing a 2 a 3 and a 4 or 5! I on the other hand am missing kings and queens so I can only hope for a full house unless I’m really lucky!!! (My attempt at being clever) bahahah epic fail!!
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When I got newly diagnosed my hormones were still raging. I practically didn’t even know I was ill. I got in fantastic shape(as good as I could) and went back to school. I couldn’t even talk to girls I was so shy, but I was in such good shape that they started taking note of me. I even had the hottest girl in my class take my notebook off my desk and write her name and phone number in there. She was vexed as to why I didn’t come on to her. Most of them can’t even tell were a little off. Everyone’s odd. You don’t have to have sz to be a complete psycho or worse. Most of us guys are kind gentle souls that are deep as the abyss. You just change your approach a little, don’t go after them let them come into you, that way if they discover you have some issues it’s not like you thrust yourself upon her. Does that make any sense? That’s the way I used to play it at least
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